I met a lovely guy a month ago in a night club. We got chatting and since then we've been on several dates and spoken everyday. He seems to be so much more keener than I am. He always compliments me on things such as my hair and what dress I am wearing and he's an old fashioned guy. He didn't kiss me on the lips on the first date and he believes in taking things slowly.
He's literally the guy I've always dreamed of meeting. But I find his romantic, niceness too irritating! to the point were it winds me up. I'm finding it so frustrating that I've found the nicest guy I've met in a long time and for that very reason I don't like him.
Yet when I'm with him I'm so happy, relaxed and calm. I can be myself and I don't care what he thinks. He accepts me for who I am and he puts a smile on my face. So that makes me think that maybe I do like him.
He's very attractive and several people have told me that they think he's nice looking. However I agree with them, but I don't feel attracted to him in a way which I imagined I would be to someone as nice as he is.
I'm going to Uni in September so I'm thinking that I should just give a realtionship with him a try. If the relationship fails I can just use the whole 'I'm moving away' excuse but if it works I'll only be an hour away on the train.
So ultimately I can't decide what to do. Do you think it would be cruel if I started a relationship with him if I'm not 'in love' with him? Or do you think I should give it ago and see if my feelings become stronger?
I don't want to lose him as he seems like such a nice guy. I just want a bit of 'badness' about him.
Thanks