Weird situation with my female housemate

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  1. ZeroBeat's Avatar
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    Weird situation with my female housemate
    I live in student accommodation with a girl and a guy (who's gay) and we've all been friends for a while but just recently things have felt a bit 'different' with the girl. Through conversations we've had she seems to have problems with her confidence and enjoys male attention so she sleeps around quite often.

    I've always had the 'friend zone' kind of vibe from her but these last few weeks I've noticed some things. I'm pretty sure it started when I made a joke about her having a large behind but then said it was a good thing. I know she remembers it because she's brought it up a few times. Anyway to keep this short I'll list some of the things I've noticed.

    - Rubbing her chest when talking to me.
    - Coming to use the mirror in my room because it 'makes her look better'.
    - Changed her top in front of me while using my mirror telling me not to look but knew I was.
    - Pushing her breasts together with her hands while talking directly to me and when I point it out explains that it's because she took her bra off earlier because its uncomfortable.

    She's seems to enjoy the attention she gets, what do you think the deal is?
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    (Original post by ZeroBeat)
    I live in student accommodation with a girl and a guy (who's gay) and we've all been friends for a while but just recently things have felt a bit 'different' with the girl. Through conversations we've had she seems to have problems with her confidence and enjoys male attention so she sleeps around quite often.

    I've always had the 'friend zone' kind of vibe from her but these last few weeks I've noticed some things. I'm pretty sure it started when I made a joke about her having a large behind but then said it was a good thing. I know she remembers it because she's brought it up a few times. Anyway to keep this short I'll list some of the things I've noticed.

    - Rubbing her chest when talking to me.
    - Coming to use the mirror in my room because it 'makes her look better'.
    - Changed her top in front of me while using my mirror telling me not to look but knew I was.
    - Pushing her breasts together with her hands while talking directly to me and when I point it out explains that it's because she took her bra off earlier because its uncomfortable.

    She's seems to enjoy the attention she gets, what do you think the deal is?
    Think you've answered your question there mate.
  3. ZeroBeat's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    Yeah, looks like it lol. Do you think there's anything else to it?
  4. rab22's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    (Original post by enigma1122)
    you said she has a fat bum, that she was insulted by probably, you "defeminised her" maybe. It doesn't matter that you said it was a good thing. She is probably thinking she has a fat ugly arse now. So she might be trying to point out to you via her actions, that she is still an attractive female, not necessairly because she likes you, but probably because she doesn't want you to think she is ugly and has a fat bum. lol
    hahahahaha...dats all u got from his post :P
  5. Waitingname's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    Sounds like a slag, really.
  6. enigma1122's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    (Original post by rab22)
    hahahahaha...dats all u got from his post :P
    i didnt get anything from yours wat do u mean :/
  7. M4LLY's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    You've answered your own question there pal
  8. Pankeu's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    (Original post by ZeroBeat)
    I live in student accommodation with a girl and a guy (who's gay) and we've all been friends for a while but just recently things have felt a bit 'different' with the girl. Through conversations we've had she seems to have problems with her confidence and enjoys male attention so she sleeps around quite often.

    I've always had the 'friend zone' kind of vibe from her but these last few weeks I've noticed some things. I'm pretty sure it started when I made a joke about her having a large behind but then said it was a good thing. I know she remembers it because she's brought it up a few times. Anyway to keep this short I'll list some of the things I've noticed.

    - Rubbing her chest when talking to me.
    - Coming to use the mirror in my room because it 'makes her look better'.
    - Changed her top in front of me while using my mirror telling me not to look but knew I was.
    - Pushing her breasts together with her hands while talking directly to me and when I point it out explains that it's because she took her bra off earlier because its uncomfortable.

    She's seems to enjoy the attention she gets, what do you think the deal is?
    Sounds like she's getting a confidence boost from your compliments and she's fishing for another one...maybe you should set the record straight instead of leading her on and tell her that you're not interested and that's it's making you uncomfortable (it's that's the case).
  9. rab22's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    (Original post by enigma1122)
    i didnt get anything from yours wat do u mean :/
    i meant u only picked up fat :P
  10. Dubs_ski's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    Sounds like pimms o'clock for you my boy
  11. brunettegirl92's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    maybe she thinks you fancy her and she is toying with you. she sleeps around a lot and probably thinks she is the shiz/ god's gift to men and no-one can resist her. talk to another housemate you have a good connection with. maybe they have picked up on the vibe too?

    observe her with other 'friend' guys or just other people - see if she behaves in the same way towards them
    Last edited by brunettegirl92; 12-05-2012 at 21:37.
  12. Frank Nero's Avatar
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    Re: Weird situation with my female housemate
    You think too much.

    The day I moved into my old place, the girl came into my room in her towel to use my mirror. I told her that if she did it again, I'd have to have make love to her.

    Great sex.
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