[Anonymous]

So within the following few days after losing your virginity how did you feel about sex.

Did you become more confident and want more and more of it?

Or were you scared to try it again, having not enjoyed it very much the first time?

[tehFrance]

(Original post by Anonymous)
Did you become more confident and want more and more of it?

This.

[Fate-Gush]

I thought it was thoroughly overrated.. and asked for my money back.

[Pink Liquid]

Overrated. Wish I saved it for a proper boyfriend. It made me more insecure tbh. When I was pulling or getting sex, I felt like something was wrong with me. I prefer masturbation over sex anyway. Sex with a loving partner is way better than a one night stand though. I only lost my virginity cos all my friends did and constantly talked about it, now I'm not even friends with the same group of people anymore. Looking back they were losers anyway.
Also, I lost my virginity to someone who had experience with other people, it just made me feel rubbish because of comparisons between previous partners. You can't help but think what you did wrong or why you are not as good as the last or the new partner now after such an emotional act. Sex is an emotional thing and shouldn't be taken lightly. My advice is, you always remember your first time and if it was lost in a lousy way, you live with knowing that.

[ColouredTights]

*Ahem*, no of course I wasn't the girl who's ex cried straight after sex saying that he was "confused?"... Yeah real self esteem booster that one!

I can just about see the funny side of it now, but I was pretty devestated at the time.

[Vohamanah]

Relief that it worked, and everything went in the right place, but not much else =)

[RolyBholi]

My 'first time' was a rushed and cringeworthy 1 minute; hardly a proper experience. I didn't regret what had happened (only how it had happened) but I was annoyed that it hadn't been a full experience.

The next time I had sex, which was a full experience, I was left feeling very surprised at myself. I'd had no prior experience and was extremely nervous to let a guy see my entire body naked, yet I'd been very confident and knew what I was doing and I hadn't even registered my body issues.

In short, I felt quite pleased and more confident in myself.

[greego]

Not sure how, but the first time I had sex it lasted 2 hours. We'd both had a bit to drink but we weren't plastered and it was in the middle of seeing each other. It felt incredible (we were absolutely knackered afterwards lol) and I would never regret it as it happened with the most perfect girl, even though we stopped seeing each other on Friday...but that's another story.

But I definitely felt a lot more confident and wanting more of the same afterwards. I very much doubt I would have felt the same if it were anyone else though.

[kat91s]

It was kind of unexpected, so for a few days I was feeling like 'I can't believe that happened!'

In a good way.

[fredscarecrow]

It was good. I was a bit riushed straight after as my dad was picking me up and I remember being a little sore. I wanted more sex the next time I saw my partner, but he was really hung over so that didn't happen...and then I moved to university so whilst I did want sex, the whole 'omg I'm at uni' took over.

[Studentus-anonymous]

To be honest technique wise it was pretty basic no foreplay from what I remember though we loved each other so it wasn't **** on the emotional side, but I remember for a day or two walking around with what felt like the biggest grin/smile on my face.

My thoughts consisted of feeling like I had finally been welcomed into the sexually active club, and that no matter what else happened in my life from that day forth I would not die a virgin.

I was never hung up in the way a lot of people on TSR seem to be about being a virgin, but it was nice to lose it anyway. That I wasn't going to be a 40 year old virgin was nice to know.

My confidence grew and we ****ed like rabbits for the rest of the relationship.

The night before that was more typically awkward, in that I was anxious as **** and we didn't do anything but get topless and sleep. Yes I freely admit I was actually scared ****less but in my defence that was the first time I got to cop a feel of boobs, and I wasn't as confident with interacting with girls.

[itchy and scratchy]

I couldn't walk properly for a few days.

For me, it felt like it was too carefully planned; it was the first time for both of us, and our first serious relationship, but it felt a bit too staged and not as 'natural' as I'd hoped... but I guess the first time can never be anything like you had imagined. I felt different as I'd experienced something new - slightly more confident, but the most significant change was the bond between us as I felt a hell of a lot more closer to him.

[Coeusful]

My first time only went smoothly for my partner, who had prior experience. To be perfectly honest, I didn't technically "finish" my first time, whereas she did, and there were some... other performance problems too, so in a way I felt like it wasn't a full experience for me.

Nevertheless, it was thoroughly amazing, and, as has been said above, it was a nice feeling to have the self-knowledge that I was now part of the "sexually active club". Though, next time I hope not to have to say the words, "I swear this usually doesn't happen."

[amyshamblesxx]

Well, my ex cried straight after taking my virginity because he claimed "it was so beautiful" and he was "overcome with emotion". I just sat there like