Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend is
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isGet him to show you a picture of her, if she is hot, then agree but find something to criticise to take the edge off of how hot she is to him. That way he doesn't have to talk about it again, you know she's hot but hot with a big nose or bad cellulite etc.
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isWhilst I think it's completely natural to still find other people attractive when you're in a relationship (you don't suddenly go blind, after all), I think telling your partner this when it's a friend (rather than someone completely unattainable- a celebrity) is a bit off. I would be honest with him, tell him he's said this quite a lot and it's starting to upset you.
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isits perfectly normal for both men and women to find other people attractive even when in a relationship.
what is not normal is telling the partner repeatedly that he finds one of his friends attractive.
he is either trying to make you jelous, simply an idiot or a bit of a dick.
next time he mentions her, ask him if he fancies her, or say "oh, so your not attracted to me then" - he may be attracted to you, but it drives the point home that you don't feel that he is because of the way he talks about her. -
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isOr he wants you to dump him so he doesn't have to dump you.(Original post by brunettegirl92)
its perfectly normal for both men and women to find other people attractive even when in a relationship.
what is not normal is telling the partner repeatedly that he finds one of his friends attractive.
he is either trying to make you jealous, simply an idiot or a bit of a dick.
next time he mentions her, ask him if he fancies her, or say "oh, so your not attracted to me then" - he may be attracted to you, but it drives the point home that you don't feel that he is because of the way he talks about her.
Say "Why do you keep going on about this girl? What are you trying to tell me" -
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isWhilst it isn't wrong that it upsets you, I think the reason he is telling you about it might be that he's comfortable with sharing things with you that usually he would expect not to share, so it might not be entirely a bad thing. But yeah, there's nothing wrong with it getting you down a bit.
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isdamn I'm outta rep.(Original post by MancBoy)
If a girlfriend said this to me about a guy then I would consider dropping her. If your boyfriend loved you then you should be the most attractive person in his eyes.
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isI think you're my identical twin, I've been saying 'ain't nobody got time for that' for the past few days when I've had the chance to.(Original post by The_Jammy_Witch)
Ohhhh I'd get rid if I were you. Being second best?
Ain't nobody got time for that.
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isI have, but due to you being an Arsenal fan I can only conclude that you're my evil twin.(Original post by Faith01)
I think you're my identical twin, I've been saying 'ain't nobody got time for that' for the past few days when I've had the chance to.
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isyes, you should feel upset..its a warning sign...be careful.(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend is always telling me how hot he finds this girl that he's friends with, and it gets me down, am i right to feel hurt about this?
take a look at this thread...
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Re: Boyfriend keeps telling me how hot his friend isOh crap, you are a Spurs fan!(Original post by The_Jammy_Witch)
I have, but due to you being an Arsenal fan I can only conclude that you're my evil twin.
Have you seen he's climbing through your window?
you are an evil version of me!
Yea I watched, ..tryna snatch yo people up, so hide yo kids, hide yo wife.
you are an evil version of me!
