Am I the one out of order?
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Am I the one out of order?
Sorry it's an essay!
As I'm really not fussed about going the same clubs as my flatmates on nights out, I thought I'd try organise something nice after we've all finished our first year of uni. So I suggest going a Theme park. Me and one of my flatmates set the date for mid June and everyone agreed (Even though would mean coming back to uni accommodation, we'd agreed we would keep our keys).
But anyway, I go out for a meal with my sports club Sunday and I get this text of one of my flatmates "We were talking about Alton Towers, and people would rather go before going home, And as it's sunny Tuesday are you free then?". To which I said no because I'm doing bad for money, have no overdraft & While I don't have exams I have sketchbook work to do. So I get told I should give myself a day off, and other unsympathetic texts (I've just spent £90 on course materials in a week, I don't have any spare money). Nothing else is said.
Monday night I find out flatmates are all still going the theme park despite me being the one organising the initial date and don't realise why I'm pissed off.
Now I was a bit of a dick here, as I was pissed off and my room is next to the one I'm annoyed at I kept her up playing guitar hero & venting (I thought she'd rather hear music than me yelling at her). She sends me 2 texts telling me to shut up and calling me a child. In all fairness I don't have my phone glued to me & I find it easy to loose track of time playing games. I didn't see the texts until she knocked on my door getting angry with me. Before she knocked on my door, I had switched to just listening to music on my laptop. She then accuses me of acting like a child because I didn't turn my music down & if I had a problem I should tell her. (Honestly I would have turned my music straight off/down if she'd just knocked on my door in the first place rather than calling me childish in what I deem a childish way. & she didn't yell at the lad the otherside playing on his games console...).
So I told her my problem was she changed the date even though I was the one to organise it & even though it meant I couldn't go. She said actually I never invited her (Ok, then why text ME to ask to move it in the first place? Cos if I didn't invite her, she wouldn't ask me about something she didn't know about) & that she never changed the date (Again referring back to text, why use the words "We would rather". That is changing the date)...She's clearly changed it for her benefit because they went yesterday, and today she's packing as she's going home tomorrow.
But it's just put me in a horrible mood because I was looking forward to going with all of them because I don't feel like we do loads as a whole group and I know because they've been now at least one of my other flatmates won't come back from home.