Meeting a lady friend from the usa, advice on how to get in there :P

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  1. mark147celts's Avatar
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    Meeting a lady friend from the usa, advice on how to get in there :P
    hey there, basically i'm going on holiday this year to america.. i met a girl 2 years back there, who is going to be there this year. That night she admitted being into me but I didn't do anything as she was seeing someone..however this time round she is now single haha

    Anyhow after seeing that she was now available,thanks to good old fb, i thought i'd initiate chat with her.. so informed her I was going back to the states and she suggested meeting up! happydays...wahey thinks me lol

    now i'm a chatty enough person when ya get to know me, but I was thinking there after initial convo after like greetings, what ya been at since etc, conversation could run dry lol. Now that would be a disaster! Just thinking I don't think we have much in common, perhaps that could be a good thing.. maybe, maybe not.. Anyhow advice would be appreciated so I don't make an ar5e outa meself /(slash) prevent it becoming awkward! I was thinking possibly going to a bar or something with her, and see what happens. Perhaps after a few drinks i'll loosen up somewhat more! So yea, advice would be great!
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    Re: Meeting a lady friend from the usa, advice on how to get in there :P
    Drinks I'd say are a must, stops the clammy not knowing what to say disaster!
    Why don't you try some casual flirting so you both already know the situation and aren't waiting for one another to say that they do or dont?
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    Re: Meeting a lady friend from the usa, advice on how to get in there :P
    (Original post by GooeyLouii)
    Drinks I'd say are a must, stops the clammy not knowing what to say disaster!
    Why don't you try some casual flirting so you both already know the situation and aren't waiting for one another to say that they do or dont?

    just try to be polite in all ur conversations...being rude is a bitch in america
  4. mark147celts's Avatar
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    Re: Meeting a lady friend from the usa, advice on how to get in there :P
    (Original post by GooeyLouii)
    Drinks I'd say are a must, stops the clammy not knowing what to say disaster!
    Why don't you try some casual flirting so you both already know the situation and aren't waiting for one another to say that they do or dont?
    all right I understand the casual flirting part, but what do you mean when ya say 'they do or they don't' Sorry I might just be being a slowbus here lol
  5. Veldrin's Avatar
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    Re: Meeting a lady friend from the usa, advice on how to get in there :P
    Get it, out put it in her hand and cry. Works 60% of the time all the time.
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