[anisaa93(:]

hey, im just feeling quite awful atm so wanted someone to talk to.

basically i like this boy. we chat every single night and it can get quite emotional as we argue alot and talk about our depression and our pasts and our emotions. somehow i got deeply attached to him. now he's on holiday with limited internet and phone coverage. its only for 3 weeks but last night when he flew out it killed me. i had this really strange and weird anxiety feeling that ive never had with someone before, like i was going to be sick and as if some part of me was missing. i felt just awful. ive calmed down now that ive slept. he actually texted me yesterday but hasnt replied for a while. the fact we wont speak properly for a while... i cant get him out of my head or think of something else just sat staring here at his last message.

:/

[Fruitcake_OX]

You should never rely on one person that much... Use this 3 weeks to ween yourself off of this dependancy, because that is WAY TOO MUCH.

[anisaa93(:]

(Original post by Fruitcake_OX)
You should never rely on one person that much... Use this 3 weeks to ween yourself off of this dependancy, because that is WAY TOO MUCH.

you know what, i actually agree. i dont know how i can do this or why even in the first place though its like the first time ive actually felt like this. its ridiculous.

[Fruitcake_OX]

(Original post by anisaa93(:)
you know what, i actually agree. i dont know how i can do this or why even in the first place though its like the first time ive actually felt like this. its ridiculous.

serious question how old are you?

[anisaa93(:]

(Original post by Fruitcake_OX)
serious question how old are you?

18

[londonlawstudent]

At least you know he is coming back and he hasn't just upped sticks and left you for good (Sorry, now we're talking about me haha).

[anisaa93(:]

(Original post by londonlawstudent)
At least you know he is coming back and he hasn't just upped sticks and left you for good (Sorry, now we're talking about me haha).

yeah i hope.. not a long time actually more i think about it. but im the kinda person that hits the wall when someone doesnt reply to my text. especially when its been over a day whether its my dad or a guy or girlfran. i know hes prob busy tho.

[Fruitcake_OX]

(Original post by anisaa93(:)
yeah i hope.. not a long time actually more i think about it. but im the kinda person that hits the wall when someone doesnt reply to my text. especially when its been over a day whether its my dad or a guy or girlfran. i know hes prob busy tho.

You should really get some help, that is NOT healthy, you cant go into your adult life with that kind of fuse or needy personality... Not meant as an insult, just seriously think about seeing somebody

[anisaa93(:]

(Original post by Fruitcake_OX)
You should really get some help, that is NOT healthy, you cant go into your adult life with that kind of fuse or needy personality... Not meant as an insult, just seriously think about seeing somebody

no your right, i was pretty down with alot of other things. he was like my soul mate guiding me through my problem. i feel much better now that ive slept it off . he just filled a void in my life and it was taken away from me suddenly. anyhoo thanks. its just been 3 days since he texted with no reply and i get wound up with things like this.

[brunettegirl92]

aww -you're in love.
Yes, you will get a sinking feeling when they go away for a while - however short, you will notice if they don't text back within 5 minutes, and however much you try to think of something else, they will creep back into your thoughts.
After a while, you get used to loving them and not being with them 24/7. i don't think you need to get help, just learn to adjust to it and cope with your feelings.
When he gets back meet up with him and let him know how you feel - or flirt and see how he responds.

[anisaa93(:]

(Original post by brunettegirl92)
aww -you're in love.
Yes, you will get a sinking feeling when they go away for a while - however short, you will notice if they don't text back within 5 minutes, and however much you try to think of something else, they will creep back into your thoughts.
After a while, you get used to loving them and not being with them 24/7. i don't think you need to get help, just learn to adjust to it and cope with your feelings.
When he gets back meet up with him and let him know how you feel - or flirt and see how he responds.

thats exactly how i felt. like butterflies in my stomach and that sinking feeling.tbh think its more infatuation than love. anyway i have kind of gotten over it, the first day was awful. but last night he texted me after 4 days, by now ive kinda got my mind of things and started to keep myself busy. i texted him back instantly and now await another 4 days of no reply lol but he did mention he has signal problems so i guess that explains things and he said he misses me, thinks about me every day and loves me which made me feel much better. your right they creep back into your mind. totally, just need to adjust which i think im doing. only have to wait until the 19th