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    Girls..
    Wow girls really take the p*** sometimes!

    So I have been speaking to this girl for a few months, we met up twice, got kissy kissy twice but no further, but I just felt that It wasn't right, so instead of leading her on and taking advantage like other guys might do, I spoke to her and was really nice to her, apologised but said that I don't like her like that.

    So now a week later she is posting all of this emotional stuff on Facebook and Twitter, I know she is still in love with me because her friends say she is, and she posts things that are about me all the time. Now she's posting about how 'Guys are such d***s' 'I've made a mistake but I'm going to move on' 'You got what you wanted from me then f***ed off, that's why we don't talk any more' and countless other posts.


    I mean really? I don't think I did anything wrong, just proceeding to delete her off of my phone and all social networks now..
  2. brunettegirl92's Avatar
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    Re: Girls..
    you may have gotten her hopes up the were like 'er...no' so that could have upset her, but you didn't take advantage of her.
    Talk to her again, but if she doesn't get it this time, she's just being attention seeking.
  3. Wilfred Little's Avatar
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    Re: Girls..
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Wow girls really take the p*** sometimes!

    So I have been speaking to this girl for a few months, we met up twice, got kissy kissy twice but no further, but I just felt that It wasn't right, so instead of leading her on and taking advantage like other guys might do, I spoke to her and was really nice to her, apologised but said that I don't like her like that.

    So now a week later she is posting all of this emotional stuff on Facebook and Twitter, I know she is still in love with me because her friends say she is, and she posts things that are about me all the time. Now she's posting about how 'Guys are such d***s' 'I've made a mistake but I'm going to move on' 'You got what you wanted from me then f***ed off, that's why we don't talk any more' and countless other posts.

    I mean really? I don't think I did anything wrong, just proceeding to delete her off of my phone and all social networks now..
    :confused:

    If you kissed her once and you didn't like her like that, why did you then meet up again and kiss her again?
  4. pinkangelgirl's Avatar
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    Re: Girls..
    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
    :confused:

    If you kissed her once and you didn't like her like that, why did you then meet up again and kiss her again?

    i got a load of abuse off TSR once when i said i kissed a guy twice and then told him i had no feelings. he was only after sex anyway (found out now) so i dont see what the problem is.

    and so what? how many people havent kissed someone because theyre unsure how they feel/they think they like them at the time and then realise theres no chemistry. It happens.
  5. Wilfred Little's Avatar
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    (Original post by pinkangelgirl)
    i got a load of abuse off TSR once when i said i kissed a guy twice and then told him i had no feelings. he was only after sex anyway (found out now) so i dont see what the problem is.

    and so what? how many people havent kissed someone because theyre unsure how they feel/they think they like them at the time and then realise theres no chemistry. It happens.
    Dunno.

    That would explain kissing them once but he did it twice. From the information he has given I can't see what the girl has done wrong other than get a bit carried away on Facebook.
  6. pinkangelgirl's Avatar
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    Re: Girls..
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Wow girls really take the p*** sometimes!

    So I have been speaking to this girl for a few months, we met up twice, got kissy kissy twice but no further, but I just felt that It wasn't right, so instead of leading her on and taking advantage like other guys might do, I spoke to her and was really nice to her, apologised but said that I don't like her like that.

    So now a week later she is posting all of this emotional stuff on Facebook and Twitter, I know she is still in love with me because her friends say she is, and she posts things that are about me all the time. Now she's posting about how 'Guys are such d***s' 'I've made a mistake but I'm going to move on' 'You got what you wanted from me then f***ed off, that's why we don't talk any more' and countless other posts.


    I mean really? I don't think I did anything wrong, just proceeding to delete her off of my phone and all social networks now..
    Hang on....you met up twice. and shes in love with you?

    why am i giving this the time of day :doh:
  7. foolscap's Avatar
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    Re: Girls..
    (Original post by pinkangelgirl)
    Hang on....you met up twice. and shes in love with you?

    why am i giving this the time of day :doh:
    Don't forget this:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So I have been speaking to this girl for a few months
    She's probably the obsessive type who over the course of the months they were talking, covered her room with pictures of him, and then after seeing him once decided that she was "in love". Just gotta ride out the storm OP she'll get over it.
  8. idealized's Avatar
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    Re: Girls..
    All you did was kiss her, i dont see the big deal :l
    You better off without her lol
  9. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: Girls..
    The second time I saw her was in a nightclub on a night out so I was a bit drunk, but I still hadn't seen enough of her to make my mind up on her yet. I realised after that night that she just wasn't for me and it would be unfair to lead her on.

    And yes.. she was a bit weird in the way that she was totally in love with me even though we had only met twice.. that put me off her a bit if I'm honest tbh.
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