boobs :(

Like boobs are nice for sure. But you can't have sex with boobs... oh wait.

No but seriously as a guy it really doesn't matter especially for relationship material ladies

No you cant have proof! Lol i see that people are jealous and have negged me, i did say people that are smaller tend to have other better features!

Get your head out of your ass, ever stop to think people are negging you not out of jealousy, but because your post might seem a little insensitive to the OP? She clearly asked if anyone has been in the same position as her, you coming in and saying "WELL IVE GOT BIG TITS SO I DUNNO HOW U FEEL LOL" isn't really going to make her feel better is it?

Hello!

I'm a 34B so my boobs are in no way huge and when I was around 16 or 17 (I'm 25 now), I felt very similar to how you did. How old are you?

First of all, a man is not going to pick a girl with big boobs over a girl with a smaller chest. Men don't pick their partners based on their bra size, and any man that does is seriously not worth your time. I know you're reading this and thinking it's all bull****, but believe me, it isn't. Imagine you did have large breasts. Would you really want to be with a guy that was solely going out with you because he found your breasts aesthetically pleasing? Is that the kind of person you want to have a loving relationship with?

I know it's difficult when you see lad's mags that are all "BIG BOOBS IS WHAT MEN WANT!!11!!" but that really isn't how the real world works. I have never struggled to find a boyfriend or maintain a relationship and my boobs are tiny. An important thing to remember is confidence is key. When I was a teenager, I hated my breasts and would hardly ever let my boyfriend at the time see them. We are friends now and he told me a few years ago that my breasts never turned him off, but my lack of confidence did.

The problem here is not your boobs, but your lack of confidence. You should be proud of yourself and love yourself. Not everyone has big boobs, but what about your ass or legs? What about other features you have that will attract the opposite sex?

I've been with my boyfriend 1.5 years and he has never complained about my chest, and neither have I. I don't want to turn him off by whinging about my bra size, he wouldn't find that sexy and I don't need re-assurance over something I can't control and has no bearing on me as a person or a woman.

Please feel free to PM me, honestly I really hate the thought of girls feeling the way I did, it's so unneccessary and I'd really like to help if I can!

Oh and as wh0re-ish as this sounds, when I subscribed to this forum, I posted a picture of myself in my new bra and knickers in a thread that only other subscribers could see. It got over 20 pos reps. Not bad for a flat chested girl right? What I'm saying is, you can still be sexy whatever your bra size. So chin up!

I feel so inferior.
I am flat chested and feel that it's forever going to hold me back. I see girls who are in proportion and think 'that's what guys want' - my friends say it doesn't matter as much as I think it does, but I know they're just saying it to make me feel better. Of course any guy is gonna pick a girl with reasonable sized boobs over one with a flat chest - it's just nature! Sometimes I think my life is pointless: I'm never going to find anyone or have children - or if i do they will cheat on me/leave me for someone with breasts.
I'd get a boob job but for one I can't afford it and two they still wouldn't be real.

I find it so depressing that women are catagorised for life over something they have no control over.

Does anyone understand where I'm coming from? I am fed up of hearing 'the right guy won't mind what bra size you are' because it's bull****!

No you cant have proof! Lol i see that people are jealous and have negged me, i did say people that are smaller tend to have other better features!

Shame that all you've got is (supposedly) a pair of boobs. I think its fairly obvious i'd rather be with someone who has no boobs and a cracking personality than someone with big boobs who has the personality of a plank of wood.

I'm a guy. Genuinely don't give a damn. My last girlfriend was pretty much flat chested but I didn't care (though she did). I can totally understand you because of how much of an issue it was for her, she would cry because it really really bothered her and I understood. The issue with the media is that guys can't even come out and say omg I actually like flat chested girls because it's apparently "wrong". The thing is just like you like things which other girls don't, same with guys. There's a hell of a lot of variation, so seriously don't fret. I loved her to bits and I felt she was hot as she was, it wasn't the idea of it's okay because she has other things but I actually genuinely wouldn't have changed her if I could.