Men who go to see escorts

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i doubt any of them enjoy it..

I know one who earns £125k a year, she definitely enjoys it.

High-class prostitution is the most satisfying line of work a woman can enter. A world of craziness and adventure requiring no specialist skills and 2 days of work a week, and for that you get upwards of 60k a year and often lots more.

I would advise any woman considering prostitution to enter it, if you tread carefully there are massive rewards to be gained.

Reply 21

GdotL

Original post by Jakeh

I'd say its naive! But i've never met a girl to have done it yet? And besides whats wrong 40 y.os?

I meant that it's actually some sort of relationship as opposed to no relationship. Oh just that 40 year olds are not my thing.

Original post by barnetbuzzzz

Men see escorts for other reasons than just "needing sex".
I've slept with 4 escorts and am now in a happy relationship. And as long as I'm in a relationship I certainly won't be sleeping with anyone else.

I'm sure you are in a happy relationship - of course I was just giving my personal view as I would seriously hesitate to get into a relationship with a guy who'd done this (although I'm betting he wouldn't tell me oh noes).

Original post by im so fresh

What about the women who choose to do this?

The number of women who use escorts must be so so so low.

Reply 22

Hana_87

Can i just ask.... What's so "high class" about high class escorts? Genuinely.

Reply 23

Jakeh

Original post by GdotL

I meant that it's actually some sort of relationship as opposed to no relationship. Oh just that 40 year olds are not my thing.

I'm sure you are in a happy relationship - of course I was just giving my personal view as I would seriously hesitate to get into a relationship with a guy who'd done this (although I'm betting he wouldn't tell me oh noes).

The number of women who use escorts must be so so so low.

think he meant to be an escort..

Reply 24

GdotL

Original post by Hana_87

Can i just ask.... What's so "high class" about high class escorts? Genuinely.

The hotness and the price (and sometimes the intelligence).

Reply 25

barnetbuzzzz

Original post by Hana_87

Can i just ask.... What's so "high class" about high class escorts? Genuinely.

They're hot and reasonably intelligent and well spoken, which pretty much ticks the required boxes for guys.

Reply 26

Hana_87

Original post by barnetbuzzzz

They're hot and reasonably intelligent and well spoken, which pretty much ticks the required boxes for guys.

Are they actually hot though? And i'm not being sarcastic at all it's just from pictures i've seen and stuff they're all pretty trashy looking, very fake - fake boobs, fake hair, fake tan etc etc.

Am i wrong here?

Reply 27

barnetbuzzzz

Original post by Hana_87

Some of them look like that, some are a lot classier.
Men have different tastes, a lot of guys like that look.

Reply 28

username447608

I think you have be careful and not end up getting a clouded view that all women are like these escorts, there emotionless and detached from the sex whereas a girlfriend will be over sensative if you say or do the wrong thing she may get upset, i geuss you have to be careful not to get into the mindset when you do get a gf of 'shes not as agood as that escort' it depends what type of personality you have.

That said without sounding ruded/mean/ignorent I would be a bit put of if a boyfriend told me he had used escorts 1) Id be afraid of not living up to expectations
2) Id be scared he'd cheat as hes had a taste of the greener grass so to speak
3) I would think he doesnt respect women if he is willing to pay one to use her body

Reply 29

Sharpshooter

Original post by SillyMilly

That said without sounding ruded/mean/ignorent I would be a bit put of if a boyfriend told me he had used escorts 1) Id be afraid of not living up to expectations
2) Id be scared he'd cheat as hes had a taste of the greener grass so to speak
3) I would think he doesnt respect women if he is willing to pay one to use her body

A lot of men use escorts because they are afraid of being virgins in their late 20s/30s.

For example I'm 25 coming 26 and seriously embarresed about being a virgin to the point where I was literally suicidal at times because I felt I was going to be like this for the rest of my life. :frown:

Now the downside to this also is that if I remain a virgin till I was 30+ I would be a turnoff to the majority of women which is a disaster. The majority of women want experianced men, I understand that.

I'm a bit socially awkward at the moment but could improve by the time I'm 30, but by then it would be too late to get a girlfriend because I have no sexual experiance.

Do you see how viscous this cycle is for people like me who were socially awkward/shy (like REALLY shy) in their teens/early 20s. We are paying the price for that.

Now I don't want to use escorts, I REALLY don't and would love to avoid it, but I feel I may have to avoid the situation I've described above. I'm planning to have 5 attempts by the time I'm 30 and stop there.

Don't worry about not "living up" to expectations, I'm only doing to avoid looking weird by a certain age. :s-smilie:

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 30

noteraz

I use escorts every 2-3 weeks or even weekly when business goes well mostly in London.

I don't pay them hourly, just book them for the whole night, usually 9PM till 7AM for £1k excluding hotel + drinks/food.

Most of these girls are eastern europeans and are very good looking with perfect bodies and will behave like everything you see on porn vids. Only problem is communication as they can't speak English too well and the reason i like booking them for the whole night is because i like talking to them about stuff and build up the sexual feeling before going all out. Really can't imagine paying a girl for an hour and she just walks into the room and drops her panties, really not my style.

These girls do make hell alot of money but it's definetly not worth it. After a few years of doing this business they will be mentally scarred and will have alot of psycological problems because their emotions and feelings have been played with by hundreds of men if not thousands. Most of the clients these girls have are old rich dirty men and when they see a young fresh man like me they tend to be alot happier LOL.

The reason i take escorts is because i have a very busy lifestyle, just do not have time for relationships and the extras that come along with it. Sex is a very big need for a man and controling it will only cause more stress. I feel alot more relaxed/confident/contempt after the sessions i have with these escorts. I mean what's the point me making money working hard 24/7 when i can't even enjoy it?

Reply 31

fuzznbass

I'd rather spend money on going to the gym and enjoying normal social relations with women rather than as bought goods. You don't always have to resort to using escorts.

Reply 32

noteraz

Original post by fuzznbass

I'd rather spend money on going to the gym and enjoying normal social relations with women rather than as bought goods. You don't always have to resort to using escorts.

Treat sex like a sport with an escort and i assure you it will be the most intense work out of your life. No gym or supplements required.

Reply 33

fuzznbass

Original post by noteraz

Treat sex like a sport with an escort and i assure you it will be the most intense work out of your life. No gym or supplements required.

Why escorts though ?...lol

Reply 34

Hana_87

Original post by barnetbuzzzz

Some of them look like that, some are a lot classier.
Men have different tastes, a lot of guys like that look.

Yeah. I don't doubt some of them are attractive but the fact they're sleeping with other people, doing it as a job.... I dunno, if i was a guy i think that would definitely put me off.

Reply 35

noteraz

Original post by Hana_87

Yeah. I don't doubt some of them are attractive but the fact they're sleeping with other people, doing it as a job.... I dunno, if i was a guy i think that would definitely put me off.

A guy goes to an escort just for sex not relationship, so it doesn't really matter how many men the hooker has slept with before.

Reply 36

Hana_87

Original post by noteraz

A guy goes to an escort just for sex not relationship, so it doesn't really matter how many men the hooker has slept with before.

Guess that's the difference between men and women. I enjoy sex, but no matter how hot the guy was, having sex with him without having spent time with him and knowing he had no feelings for me whatsoever (whether he had just pretended to have them to get me into bed or not as long as i don't know) i just could not do it. I'd be like "i'm never gonna see you again, this means nothing".

:s-smilie:

Reply 37

tehFrance

Original post by Anonymous

I've been toying with the idea of paying for a high class escort (£100+/hour).

£100 an hour is not for high-class escorts, £700+ is more the figure.

Reply 38

GdotL

Original post by Sharpshooter

I'd much much prefer an older virgin guy than one who had used an escort. Make sure you're certain it's what you want and remember that sex with a prostitute is not really going to be like sex with your average woman. :smile: