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    where has this horniness come from?
    Im a bit confused because i was in a relationship for 3 years and we never had sex, i wasnt attracted to him and i didnt care for doing anything- i didnt like blow jobs or anything. I never used to masturbate or really think about sex. i would say i had zilch sex drive.

    Now, ive been single for about 6 months and i am horny every single day. i have started masturbating. I literally dont go a second without thinking about sex and blow jobs im constantly thinking of really dirty things. (now i know what its like for guys!!)

    ive got to know several more guys since breaking up with my ex and i have realised what a flirt i am- constantly dirty talking with them. Ive started having really wild fantasies that id never thought of before- even doing things with the same sex.

    I get bored doing something with the same person- for example, if i give a blowjob to someone, i dont want to do it to them again, i want someone else.

    why this change? im not complaining, i like it i just wondered why this would suddenely come about? im 22 and a virgin (though thats being sorted out )
  2. Dantino's Avatar
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    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    some things in life are so good that they shouldn't be questioned
  3. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    true, i just wondered though
  4. natcho's Avatar
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    I'm not sure, but the "not wanting to do something with Someone more than once cos I'm bored" isn't great.

    Good for you though, sounds like you're having a good time, which is what counts
  5. ShredMaster's Avatar
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    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    Its strange that its sudden.
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    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im a bit confused because i was in a relationship for 3 years and we never had sex, i wasnt attracted to him and i didnt care for doing anything- i didnt like blow jobs or anything. I never used to masturbate or really think about sex. i would say i had zilch sex drive.

    Now, ive been single for about 6 months and i am horny every single day. i have started masturbating. I literally dont go a second without thinking about sex and blow jobs im constantly thinking of really dirty things. (now i know what its like for guys!!)

    ive got to know several more guys since breaking up with my ex and i have realised what a flirt i am- constantly dirty talking with them. Ive started having really wild fantasies that id never thought of before- even doing things with the same sex.

    I get bored doing something with the same person- for example, if i give a blowjob to someone, i dont want to do it to them again, i want someone else.

    why this change? im not complaining, i like it i just wondered why this would suddenely come about? im 22 and a virgin (though thats being sorted out )
    thats being sorted out? lol, what you have a bitch?
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    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im a bit confused because i was in a relationship for 3 years and we never had sex, i wasnt attracted to him and i didnt care for doing anything- i didnt like blow jobs or anything. I never used to masturbate or really think about sex. i would say i had zilch sex drive.

    Now, ive been single for about 6 months and i am horny every single day. i have started masturbating. I literally dont go a second without thinking about sex and blow jobs im constantly thinking of really dirty things. (now i know what its like for guys!!)

    ive got to know several more guys since breaking up with my ex and i have realised what a flirt i am- constantly dirty talking with them. Ive started having really wild fantasies that id never thought of before- even doing things with the same sex.

    I get bored doing something with the same person- for example, if i give a blowjob to someone, i dont want to do it to them again, i want someone else.

    why this change? im not complaining, i like it i just wondered why this would suddenely come about? im 22 and a virgin (though thats being sorted out )
    Lol, this sounds similar to me. I'm a 19 year old guy.
  8. elldeegee's Avatar
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    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    Maybe it's because originally you were stuck in a relationship where there was no spark and where nothing happened.
    Once you were free of that, the desires you would have otherwise had been repressed and are now soaring to the top?

    I do agree with this though:
    (Original post by natcho)
    I'm not sure, but the "not wanting to do something with Someone more than once cos I'm bored" isn't great.
  9. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: where has this horniness come from?
    thanks all
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