[Anonymous]

So, I just get back home from college for a summer break and decide to call my buddy up. I knew he was out of the country and knew that by this date he would be back, So i ring him up and asked him how his trip was and whats new and if he wanted to hang out later. He says sure later on tonight we can go down to the pub in lanchester around 8.

So I say alright dude see you than etc.. So its getting to be 6:45 and I have to do an errand for my mom, and I knew this guy is always late and I message him asking if we were still meeting at 8. All he tells me is I don't know I will let you know. I say ok. An hour later I call him up and say its almost 8 are we meeting up tonight or not, he than says "oh yeah we will" and I was like well what time? he says later I will call you, you go to the pub and wait. And I was like I am not going to go somewhere and wait if you aren't coming at all its just stupid. Anyways we keep talking and he confirms he will be there by 9ish. I say ok, but i didn't leave home yet and I message him at 9 telling him I was about to leave and if we are still on, he replies no man, And i was like why what happened? he said I am with friends who are visiting from america and we having dinner and stuff, but go to the pub and I will meet you there later.

I was just like are you high? And told him if he was busy why would you bother making plans with me? (this was all on text) so I dont hear a word and I was just like F him in my mind. I call up another friend(red) who I also invited an told him to meet me at the pub. We meet up and talk, and he tells he called the first friend(blue) up to see if the plan was still on or he would sleep and this was at 8 when RED called and he told me BLUE told him it wasn't since he was out with friends from "america" and that RED could go to sleep.

Now what's even funnier is that Blue the next day claimed his phones batt. ran out and he would love to chill, So I was like ok lets chill. However I knew his battery didn't run out because His gchat was still on, and he had forgot to turn it off in his lies. Anyways I meet the fck and we chill. Now I have been home for sometime now and Blue is always going to the pub with RED and they never call me to go out, even though we have all been friends for years and always go to the pub together when i get back to town. And the funny thing is that BLUE is taking other friends and making them ditch me too, my "best friend" whom I call my brother came back from australia the other day and I caleld him up and asked him to meet up and all he told me was He will since He will be meeting Blue and REd as well and that he would tell me where we all would be going.

Obviously that never happened. SO I am really pissed off with the BLUE guy since he is clearly fcking around and telling people not to call me when they all go out together and frankly I am planning to tell them all to F off, esp my so called "bro" I mean how could he just sit there and be ok with it? How could he just freaking go chill with those dudes and not want to meet me as well.

[ShredMaster]

Ditch them. If you don't, then you're weak.

[jamesvancollier]

Make friends with purple

[Pitt1988]

I got lost in the colours, it was like a war of biro pens.

[emilie18]

Find some better friends!

[dgeorge]

(Original post by Anonymous)
So, I just get back home from college for a summer break and decide to call my buddy up. I knew he was out of the country and knew that by this date he would be back, So i ring him up and asked him how his trip was and whats new and if he wanted to hang out later. He says sure later on tonight we can go down to the pub in lanchester around 8.

So I say alright dude see you than etc.. So its getting to be 6:45 and I have to do an errand for my mom, and I knew this guy is always late and I message him asking if we were still meeting at 8. All he tells me is I don't know I will let you know. I say ok. An hour later I call him up and say its almost 8 are we meeting up tonight or not, he than says "oh yeah we will" and I was like well what time? he says later I will call you, you go to the pub and wait. And I was like I am not going to go somewhere and wait if you aren't coming at all its just stupid. Anyways we keep talking and he confirms he will be there by 9ish. I say ok, but i didn't leave home yet and I message him at 9 telling him I was about to leave and if we are still on, he replies no man, And i was like why what happened? he said I am with friends who are visiting from america and we having dinner and stuff, but go to the pub and I will meet you there later.

I was just like are you high? And told him if he was busy why would you bother making plans with me? (this was all on text) so I dont hear a word and I was just like F him in my mind. I call up another friend(red) who I also invited an told him to meet me at the pub. We meet up and talk, and he tells he called the first friend(blue) up to see if the plan was still on or he would sleep and this was at 8 when RED called and he told me BLUE told him it wasn't since he was out with friends from "america" and that RED could go to sleep.

Now what's even funnier is that Blue the next day claimed his phones batt. ran out and he would love to chill, So I was like ok lets chill. However I knew his battery didn't run out because His gchat was still on, and he had forgot to turn it off in his lies. Anyways I meet the fck and we chill. Now I have been home for sometime now and Blue is always going to the pub with RED and they never call me to go out, even though we have all been friends for years and always go to the pub together when i get back to town. And the funny thing is that BLUE is taking other friends and making them ditch me too, my "best friend" whom I call my brother came back from australia the other day and I caleld him up and asked him to meet up and all he told me was He will since He will be meeting Blue and REd as well and that he would tell me where we all would be going.

Obviously that never happened. SO I am really pissed off with the BLUE guy since he is clearly fcking around and telling people not to call me when they all go out together and frankly I am planning to tell them all to F off, esp my so called "bro" I mean how could he just sit there and be ok with it? How could he just freaking go chill with those dudes and not want to meet me as well.

Seriously, the best thing to do is to sit down with your best friend/"brother", and have a serious talk as to why they have been ditching you. He's going to give excuses and say that he's not, but confront him and tell him it sure feels that way. Ask him to explain what's wrong, or whats been happening, and that you feel bad that you've been treated like that. Keep hammering away despite anything he says to the contrary. If he eventually cracks and admits soemthing, then great. If not, I'd say watch their behaviour for the next couple of weeks. If no improvement, then you may have to find new friends

[Silver Arrow]

(Original post by jamesvancollier)
Make friends with purple

Purple is similar to blue, i don't think he'd be interested either.

OP i think you need new friends.

[ironmikemodem]

Maybe you're annoying and they don't want to hang out with you because of it? I'm not trolling or trying to insult you, but, friends don't just ditch you for no reason.

[jamesvancollier]

Piss in his aftershave, I do that to people when they annoy me. Not even joking.

[jam277]

(Original post by ironmikemodem)
Maybe you're annoying and they don't want to hang out with you because of it? I'm not trolling or trying to insult you, but, friends don't just ditch you for no reason.

This tbh. My mates are always calling me to meet up with them and I usually blow them off because I can't meet them at that time.