[Anonymous]

I got a job earlier this year and this girl is in my department. She has been really friendly to me right from my first shift and as I’ve got to know her better I’ve developed a bit of a crush. I look forward to going into work just so i can see her

Whenever I see her at work she’ll always smile and give me a wave. We usually talk to each other at length on our shifts and she always takes an interest in what I say. Sometimes she’ll jokingly hit me as we’re talking and I’ve caught her looking over at me a few times. It was her birthday recently and she seemed very happy that I’d asked her about it.

She’s told me a fair bit about herself and I’ve never seen her have a non work related conversation with anyone else, apart from one other girl who is my friend too. I added her on Facebook after a couple of shifts and she accepted almost instantly, we’ve spoken a few times on there. It turns out we've got a fair amount in common.

I’m quite shy at times and I’ve noticed she can be as well. I sometimes shy away from talking to her as i don't want to be intrusive or annoying. I get the feeling sometimes that she doesn't want to talk, cos she will smile at me but won't always start a conversation.

I have no idea if she’s single, she's never mentioned a boyfriend and her Facebook gives nothing away. I'm very inexperienced with relationships but i'm not sure if i am reading into this too much or if she actually likes me.

[Anonymous]

It sounds to me that she likes you. You mentioned that she is shy like you. Well, she is waiting for you to make the first move as the male. So ask her out, like for a drink after work or something casual and laid back like that. See what happens. Hope it goes well!

[Double Agent]

Worth a punt, send her a naughty but formally addressed email at work, bridget jones/daniel cleaver style.

[scrampie]

Maybe arrange to go out casually like the person above said but take the other friend (or others) with you and if it goes well do it again and if you're good enough friends with the other girl ask her to cancel so you two are alone or something.. just keep it very casual at first and if she responds well kick up the notch a little

[RalphsDisciple]

It sounds to me like she's definitely interested. She may not necessarily have a crush on you, but she's probably thought about it, so I'd definitely try asking her if she'd like to do something some time. If she does like you and she's shy, she'll be waiting for you to make the first move so she can decide just how much she likes you in a more casual setting.

[misst911]

She could be as shy as you. Try asking for her number, texts feel more personal than Facebook I find. Then you could maybe text before work and say you're looking forward to seeing her.

[Anonymous]

So it sounds like she is interested?

I do talk to her a lot but nothing flirty or suggestive just taking an interest in her and trying to get to know her better. As I'd do for anyone. How can I umm... Show her I like her? Never actually asked a girl out before and the thought of doing so is quite scary.