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  1. Anonymous's Avatar
    I have to ask.
    If a girl was short, had a stomach that popped out a little (or maybe alot - no rolls though), had large breasts and a large bottom, and large thighs, would she be attractive or just fat?

    Seeing all these skinny girls and models just make me think. Me and my best friend always deliberate on this topic. Opinions?
  2. Classical Liberal's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    Sounds like she is a bit fat

    Comparing yourself to models is stupid. Models have bodies that are ideal for putting **** clothes on. Not bodies that drive men mental.
  3. Double Agent's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    Seeing models makes you think what? Anyone can lose weight and get a decent body, if thats what you want then make it happen, make it your reality instead of trying to canvass opinion that your body is equally good or better in the eyes of men in order to give yourself a bit of self esteem boost.
  4. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: I have to ask.
    Rofl, "sounds like she's a bit fat". I'll tell her that, thanks

    Mr. Double Agent - are you saying that this person has to lose weight or boost their confidence??
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    Re: I have to ask.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If a girl was short, had a stomach that popped out a little (or maybe alot - no rolls though), had large breasts and a large bottom, and large thighs, would she be attractive or just fat?

    Seeing all these skinny girls and models just make me think. Me and my best friend always deliberate on this topic. Opinions?
    I personally prefer curvier women but not to much fat ones with protruding bellies
  6. LavenderBlueSky88's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    If you feel fat or unhealthy then do something about it. If you're happy the way you are then who cares! I'd say if you have big boobs you're automatically going to be put in the "attractive" camp by guys anyway cos that's all they seem to care about tbh ...
  7. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: I have to ask.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If a girl was short, had a stomach that popped out a little (or maybe alot - no rolls though), had large breasts and a large bottom, and large thighs, would she be attractive or just fat?

    Seeing all these skinny girls and models just make me think. Me and my best friend always deliberate on this topic. Opinions?
    Fat obviously what else. And no it's gross. Anon as I have a fat gf on here soon to be ex for a different reason.
  8. Journeyzap's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfN2SpUqfPM

    Down to personal opinion.
    If you/she feels she needs to lose some weight, it may make her feel better - but some people are naturaly curvier than others, and will appeal to different men. The weight you feel comfortable in is probably your healthy weight, and the weight at which you will be most attractive. For some that will be model skinny, for others it will be slightly curvier, and for the vast majority, it will lie in between.
  9. Ben_LiveYourDreams's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If a girl was short, had a stomach that popped out a little (or maybe alot - no rolls though), had large breasts and a large bottom, and large thighs, would she be attractive or just fat?

    Seeing all these skinny girls and models just make me think. Me and my best friend always deliberate on this topic. Opinions?
    Sounds fine.
  10. kunoichi's Avatar
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    If there are no rolls on the tummy aounds like curvy not fat to me Nothing wrong with being a curvy lady.
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    Re: I have to ask.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If a girl was short, had a stomach that popped out a little (or maybe alot - no rolls though), had large breasts and a large bottom, and large thighs, would she be attractive or just fat?

    Seeing all these skinny girls and models just make me think. Me and my best friend always deliberate on this topic. Opinions?
    Hello no I'd love a girl like that, in fact my gf is like that. I love that body shape, though I don't discriminate, as long as a girl isn't super fat or anorexic and they have a pretty face (the most important aspect for me to find a girl attractive), I would definitely go for it. Whether they are healthy or not is a different matter though.
    Last edited by Llewellyn_J; 05-07-2012 at 21:08.
  12. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: I have to ask.
    Oh, okay.. So most of the feedback I'm getting is that if I'm unhappy with my weight (I've given up pretending its about someone else -_-), I should do something about. But its good to know that not every guy will think I'm fat.

    Any tips on how to lose this stomach fat, or does that go in a different thread? And any tips on how to boost my self-esteem, which is so low? :L
  13. joey11223's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    Can you post anon in the fitness sub-forum? I think so....

    if so how about posting a picture of yourself, you can always do it from the neck down? You'll always get idiots but some will give you genuine advice.

    Obviously one question is, although BMI isn't a very accurate measure of things, according to BMI calculates are you significantly overweight?

    You are your own worst critique..
    Last edited by joey11223; 06-07-2012 at 21:19.
  14. IamLAD's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    I prefer curved rather than skinny, but there is a fine line between curvy and fat, calling someone curve is a girls nice way of calling another girl fat.
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    Re: I have to ask.
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If a girl was short, had a stomach that popped out a little (or maybe alot - no rolls though), had large breasts and a large bottom, and large thighs, would she be attractive or just fat?

    Seeing all these skinny girls and models just make me think. Me and my best friend always deliberate on this topic. Opinions?
    I do not find the catwalk models attractive. They are far too skinny. It is unhealthy to be as skinny as that. People should just be happy with themselves without worrying about societal pressures.
  16. Flair91's Avatar
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    Re: I have to ask.
    This is useless without pictures.
  17. Anonymous's Avatar
    Re: I have to ask.
    Hmmmm, okay. So I'm gonna have to check my BMI then..

    And I might consider posting a pic of my neck down, but I have confidence issues, sooooo
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