What to do with old stuff from relationship?
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- Anonymous poster #1
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What to do with old stuff from relationship?Hey everyone,
I broke up with my boyfriend in about April time or so and thought I'd managed to sort out all his stuff that was at my house, which I gave back to him, and things that were sentimental from our relationship (valentines cards, presents etc), which I put in a memory box and put them out of sight... But there's some things which I 'm really stuck what to do with?
Cleaning out my room and drawers today I came across a lot of lingerie and stuff that I'd bought for romantic nights in with him, corsets, stockings etc.. Now that we've broken up I obviously have no use for it.. I don't want to throw it away because some of the stuff cost me a lot of money, but then I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable using it in a future relationship if I bought it to wear for my ex...
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Re: What to do with old stuff from relationship?I binned all my stuff or took it to the charity shop as my ex was abusive and I wanted no reminders of him. Get rid and start a fresh with your new partner. If it's day to day underwear there is no harm in wearing it.
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- Anonymous poster #1
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Re: What to do with old stuff from relationship?Thanks. Luckily the split with my ex was relatively amicable, so I'm alright in that sense. It's really underwear/lingerie that is not really day to day, but I'm not sure how comfortable I'd be wearing it with anyone else in the future.
