[Anonymous]

So, I've been left with a typical TSR problem and would like some advice. I met this really great girl at a networking event about 3 weeks ago, and we really hit it off. I had been kicking myself up until today for not getting her number. However, by some weird case of luck, I went to another 'networking' event today, and she was there and remembered me. We got chatting again, spent most of the day together.. She was also quite touchy- feely (might be fabricating it) but her leg was touching mine when there was no need...) and there were the occasional glances at me. At the end of the day, I walked her to the station, she gave me her Facebook(seems like numbers are a valuable commodity nowadays)

My dilemma is what do I do? I will obviously add her, and say hi and the general small talk.. But, how do I go about asking her out or testing the water, because I have no idea whether she's interested in me, as obviously she didn't explicitly declare anything and we haven't spent long enough in each other's company for it to be clear. I don't usually have this kind of issue with girls since these things usually just happen, but I doubt that would be the case this time.


Thanks for any helpful replies.

[dj1015]

Here is what you need to say....., ive made it in bold so you can see it easier...


Guy: Hello
Girl: Hey!


Guy: How are you?
Girl: I'm fine


Guy: Would you like to get a drink sometime?
Girl: Sure. OR Get the hell away from me you freak!!!

Guy: Cool Bye
Girl: Bye





Simple really.

[TruetoMyself]

I have a super secret line which has amazing success when wanting to go out with a girl. Ill be kind enough to share. It goes along the lines of 'wanna go out sometime?'

[Kage]

Hmm, in my experience, adding a girl on Facebook is a bad idea if you want to date her. Not trying to scare you, but the ones I've added after getting numbers suddenly drift off/see me as a friend.

Best thing to do is to get numbers and ignore Facebook altogether to be honest until you really get to know each other.

Heck, even an MSN address is better than a Facebook add in my opinion, even nowadays

[James']

Add her on Facebook. Then bury your head in your hands when you see she's already in a relationship.

[jam277]

(Original post by James')
Add her on Facebook. Then bury your head in your hands when you see she's already in a relationship.

Na I'm just LOL'ing at this post, I can just imagine it. It'll be along the lines of