(Original post by Anonymous)
I have been friends with a girl for 6 years, at uni she kept asking me to meet up etc and I wasn't too fussed as I had friends so I thought there is no harm. Since then she has been nothing but a burden on me and other people. She has depression, self harms and is very opinionated. I don't mind people talking about their problems but she constantly talk about her depression which then gets me down.
I went on holiday with her last week, I let her stop at my parents holiday home - it's not posh but does the job. It was the worst holiday ever, she was joined at the hip, she stares at me constantly and will watch me and talk at me whilst I am eating and if she doesn't agree with something you say you will go on at you until you give into her. I did all of the driving, she never helped tidy up and I found myself tidying and cleaning the house on the last day while she sat and watched TV. She kept spilling things on the worktops and and towels in the airing cupboard. I was annoyed as my parents don't have to let her stop and she isn't showing their place any respect. When on holiday she does what she usually does not bring any toiletries and kept asking to use mine, this time I said I hadn't got any - I just find it rude and she should but her own.
She even asked if I could drive 60 miles away next weekend to go to a festival - I don't get why as I have just spent a lot of money and we have just spent a week together. She is a lonely person with no friends and doesn't get that people in the past have had enough of her because she is selfish and controlling. How can I get rid of her as she gets me down a lot.