How to get a girlfriend?
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How to get a girlfriend?Im nearly 19 and never had a girlfriend or first kiss because i dont know how to get a girlfriend. I dont drink so meeting a girl at a bar/club is out of the question and I dont have any close friends so i cant meet girls through them. so does anyone have any ideas?
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You don't have to drink to get a girl :-)
If you go to uni or do some sort of activity for e.g go to the gym then you are likely to find someone who you could talk to and get a long with and it could result in a relationship :-)
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Have you tried just going out to places and talking to girls without the intention of getting a girlfriend? It should get rid of some nervousness, because then you can't really be let down. Just try going up to a girl who's by the bar (if your in a bar and if not fit it to another situation) and ask her what she'd recommend for the best drink, if she tells you offer to buy her the same drink. Then the conversation should just flow. It helps to not get to personal or too 'in your face' sort of thing. Generally being nice, friendly, inquisitive.
That's my opinion and it works for me anyway.
It's Christmas soon...
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Re: How to get a girlfriend?You're single, aren't you?(Original post by sloanegirl)
stop posting sad threads on tsr. GO OUT. duhh
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Re: How to get a girlfriend?Sorry but you basically just said that you have no friends, don't drink, don't go out... If you can't see the problem then it's no surprise really.
I've only had one proper girlfriend and I'm 18.. but the thing is I was 16 at the time and it came out of nowhere.. having friends who have good connections helps - my first girlfriend was a friend of one of my best mates. The second girl that I saw was a friend of one of my other friend's girlfriend.
Going to clubs doesn't have to involve drinking, although I find it is much easier to feel confident and relaxed after a few drinks.. I never get absolutely plastered though. If you are just looking for a first kiss then it is pretty easy at clubs.. I'm not particularly great looking, but I have managed to get with a few '9s' so to say, and that was all them coming on to me when I was just dancing with my friends having a good time. Be confident, girls love that more than anything. Don't be one of those creeps who sits around staring at girls, or even worse one of those desperate guys who follow girls around a club grinding them. -
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Re: How to get a girlfriend?Catch a girl's eye from the other side of the room. Beckon to her. If she comes over, say to her: "If I can make you come with one finger, imagine what I can do with my whole fist."
I guarantee you she'll fall head over heels for you there and then. -
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Re: How to get a girlfriend?That is amazing. Definitely using that.(Original post by mc1000)
Catch a girl's eye from the other side of the room. Beckon to her. If she comes over, say to her: "If I can make you come with one finger, imagine what I can do with my whole fist."
I guarantee you she'll fall head over heels for you there and then.
It's Christmas soon...
