playing with my emotions

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    playing with my emotions
    She’s a really nice person and is always there for me when things are bad. She’s the first one at the scene. But when things are good, she just doesn’t want to know. She particularly doesn’t like it when I hang out with other people – she’ll say something like, “you looked really bored in the photos, looked like a crap party.” On the other hand, if she has a party to go to, I’ll always say, hope you have a good time, which I genuinely do!

    She also likes to cancel on events last minute, she’ll cry down the phone and need my attention. I don’t like it when friends get upset so it makes me cry too when she’s feeling down. Recently, I've not been giving her the same attention and she's been quite off with me, she seems annoyed like I've done something wrong, I haven't at all.

    I want to be her friend ‘cause she’s funny and outgoing but I feel like she’s sucking the life out of me by playing with my emotions.

    What should I do? Anyone else had an experience like this?
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    Re: playing with my emotions
    you a boy or a girl? Any more information you'd like to share with us before the wrath of judgment is brought down upon you or your friend?
  3. randomflag's Avatar
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    Re: playing with my emotions
    girl
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    Re: playing with my emotions
    she's probably a little narcissistic so ultimately everything is about her.
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