[Anonymous]

I feel like I'm running out of time, pretty fast.

I achieved 2 A's, 3 B's, 5 C's for GCSEs, and I've completely failed my A Levels due to extenuating circumstances. My mental and physical well-being was affected prior to the start of my first AS exam, and this is still ongoing. I still fought my way to stay in college to complete my A Levels, and I tried my hardest to put all of my energy and effort I could. But, the outcome was never near what I expected nor wanted. I almost gave up on several occasions to leave school, I still persisted, carried on and gave it my best shot.

I really wanted to study Sports & Exercise Science at university, but now I can't even think about going into further education because of my consistent failure.

I don't have a job; I've been sending off hundreds of CVs, completing online application forms, applying for volunteer/charity work, and I'm still getting nowhere. I failed my theory test, lol, which has de-motivated me even more. I'm pretty sure I may not have the motivation for my sport I've been doing for the last 14 years (I'm 18, by the way), and I really don't want it to slip away through my fingers.

I've applied to join the Special Constables Force (sent off in May 2012), and I've yet to receive a response. This is something I've been interested in, since last year.

Currently, I'm being treated for my physical health by visiting hospitals/doctors every few weeks. I am also awaiting my appointment to be held with a psychiatrist, so I'm hoping this helps me psychologically.

I'm pretty lost to know or understand what I can do with my 'all over the place' situation, and I really don't want to be sitting at home and doing nothing about it!

Can anyone offer me some advice or help on what I can do for the time being to get myself back, up and running, and whether there are any other options I have. Please?

Thank you so much, and sorry for the very vague writing. I'm panicking, a bit.

[Anonymous]

Bump.

[Educate95]

Ahhh, it sounds like a lot is going on in your life. Hmm.

Well first of all with regards to your A-Levels, I wouldn't worry too much, as these can always be re-taken at a later stage when you're ready. And there are also alternatives.

Don't worry too much about University either, as there is plenty of time to go. I think the main thing for you is sorting out your health, once that is in order you can begin to think about re-doing your A-Levels, and then going to University.

With regards to the finding a job, a lot of people are in the same position as you, just don't give up. It will take time, but you will get a job in the end. Also have you tried the apprenticeship route? It's a good way to get experience, and money.

Theory test can be retaken as well.

Yeah so basically the main thing is to just focus on your health, recovering and getting better. Once your health is all good, you can then focus on everything else.

What can you do for the time being? Take up a hobby? Try something new? Read? It really depends on what you like.

Hopefully this helps a bit. Good luck.

[BethanyJane]

(Original post by Anonymous)
I feel like I'm running out of time, pretty fast.

I achieved 2 A's, 3 B's, 5 C's for GCSEs, and I've completely failed my A Levels due to extenuating circumstances. My mental and physical well-being was affected prior to the start of my first AS exam, and this is still ongoing. I still fought my way to stay in college to complete my A Levels, and I tried my hardest to put all of my energy and effort I could. But, the outcome was never near what I expected nor wanted. I almost gave up on several occasions to leave school, I still persisted, carried on and gave it my best shot.

I really wanted to study Sports & Exercise Science at university, but now I can't even think about going into further education because of my consistent failure.

I don't have a job; I've been sending off hundreds of CVs, completing online application forms, applying for volunteer/charity work, and I'm still getting nowhere. I failed my theory test, lol, which has de-motivated me even more. I'm pretty sure I may not have the motivation for my sport I've been doing for the last 14 years (I'm 18, by the way), and I really don't want it to slip away through my fingers.

I've applied to join the Special Constables Force (sent off in May 2012), and I've yet to receive a response. This is something I've been interested in, since last year.

Currently, I'm being treated for my physical health by visiting hospitals/doctors every few weeks. I am also awaiting my appointment to be held with a psychiatrist, so I'm hoping this helps me psychologically.

I'm pretty lost to know or understand what I can do with my 'all over the place' situation, and I really don't want to be sitting at home and doing nothing about it!

Can anyone offer me some advice or help on what I can do for the time being to get myself back, up and running, and whether there are any other options I have. Please?

Thank you so much, and sorry for the very vague writing. I'm panicking, a bit.

Firstly, you can re-take your AS/A Levels if you wish, when you are comfortable and ready. If you wish to go to University etc, they will be understanding of any problems which have implicated your results.

You have a strong mindset. You sound persistent and focused and will consequently succeed! As for your jobs, try phoning these places to ensure they have received your CV.

Focus on getting better and recuperating. It's all up from here. Also, just take a moment to relax, breathe and gather your thoughts. Organise your plans and options. You'll find things become a lot simpler and easy to deal with!

I wish you the best of luck

[16dan2life]

Don't worry, resitting year 12 may be the best option, it won't really hinder your application to uni

You'll be like 19 when you go to uni which fine seeing as many take gap years and then join uni.

[NishaaaR]

Thank you for your response!

Last night, I just applied for a Fitness & Sport apprenticeship... lucky me, I was just in time before the deadline for this final one closed. Thanks for the idea.

For the time being, I have no clue, I'm still e-mailing and phoning up small companies and what not for a job, I'm also looking for a new endurance activity to take up for a month, until I go back to my normal training place, and I'm pretty much open to anything.

I really appreciate the advice offered, thank you, again.

(Original post by Educate95)
Ahhh, it sounds like a lot is going on in your life. Hmm.

Well first of all with regards to your A-Levels, I wouldn't worry too much, as these can always be re-taken at a later stage when you're ready. And there are also alternatives.

Don't worry too much about University either, as there is plenty of time to go. I think the main thing for you is sorting out your health, once that is in order you can begin to think about re-doing your A-Levels, and then going to University.

With regards to the finding a job, a lot of people are in the same position as you, just don't give up. It will take time, but you will get a job in the end. Also have you tried the apprenticeship route? It's a good way to get experience, and money.

Theory test can be retaken as well.

Yeah so basically the main thing is to just focus on your health, recovering and getting better. Once your health is all good, you can then focus on everything else.

What can you do for the time being? Take up a hobby? Try something new? Read? It really depends on what you like.

Hopefully this helps a bit. Good luck.

Thanks for your response!

Yeah, I'm not too sure if I'll be going down the education route again, when it came to GCSEs my level of determination completely shot down and when I started A Levels I was exceeding results, until it came to the actual exams in summer.

Thanks, once again.

(Original post by BethanyJane)
Firstly, you can re-take your AS/A Levels if you wish, when you are comfortable and ready. If you wish to go to University etc, they will be understanding of any problems which have implicated your results.

You have a strong mindset. You sound persistent and focused and will consequently succeed! As for your jobs, try phoning these places to ensure they have received your CV.

Focus on getting better and recuperating. It's all up from here. Also, just take a moment to relax, breathe and gather your thoughts. Organise your plans and options. You'll find things become a lot simpler and easy to deal with!

I wish you the best of luck