I played too hard to get and he lost interest

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    1 04-08-2012  15:01
    I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    I been dating someone for a month but recently I got scared & started to push him away cos I didn't wanna get hurt. Was really unavailable, grumpy when we met up & ignored his messages and stuff. Now he's talking to me less and less. Can i fix this? Guys pls help!
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    2 04-08-2012  15:10
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    Contact him, stop ignoring his messages, meet up, have some fun?
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    3 04-08-2012  15:15
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    You don't deserve him.
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    4 04-08-2012  15:21
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    This is why you don't play hard to get. Life is too short for these silly games.
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    5 04-08-2012  15:25
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    The best thing to do is let him know that you are scared, if he is decent enough he will respect that and take things as slow as you want to.


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    6 04-08-2012  15:37
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    Contact him and just be honest. Apologise and then ask him to try again and ask him out on a date or just a rendezvous. Then never do it again.
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    7 04-08-2012  16:11
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    Probably best if you don't contact him, he deserves better than someone who's just gonna play games
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  8. Anonymous's Avatar
    8 04-08-2012  17:35
    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    You.
    Are.
    A.
    Dating.
    BITCH!
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    9 05-08-2012  01:40
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    (Original post by Salu.)
    This is why you don't play hard to get. Life is too short for these silly games.
    This. Girl plays hard to get. I move on. Ain't got time for that ****..


    Unless I REALLY like her.
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    10 05-08-2012  10:10
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    Hard to get never works.
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    11 05-08-2012  10:38
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    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    Hard to get annoys guys...a bit is ok as it makes the relationship fun but behaving like this is unacceptable. The decent thing to do would be to meet up and explain why you behaved in this way. If the guy is into you, he will give you another chance.
  12. Anonymous's Avatar
    12 05-08-2012  10:38
    Re: I played too hard to get and he lost interest
    I see that now!
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