[gva]

very confused- both me and this guy are out as straight guys but i know im a bit bi-curious or whatever you wanna call it and im not sure about him too.

basically when i was about 15-16 i fancied him pretty bad, but put it down as me being confused and a stage in adolescence- now were both at uni but i see him on occasions on nights out between mutual friends of friends (our groups barely speak but we usually speak a bit if we see each other) and i think he may fancy me and its been like that for maybe a year.

we've always been friends and had long chats on nights out and stuff but theres a few instances which make me think that he may like me;


dont know whether its just my feeling coming back or if theres actually something in it.

am i just being delusional??

[ct2k7]

I'd be pretty weary if I were you, I think he's flirting with you or showing some sort of interest, at least.

[gva]

yeah but its a risk for both of us being straight and wanting to at least appear that way for the meantime- if i went for a kiss or whatever, its quite possible he could reject it and that he was messing about and i misjudged it

[ct2k7]

You could just very subtly drop some hints that you're receptive to the idea of you two being closer, and see how he reacts to that?

[gva]

yeah could do that, its just these scenarios only occur on these big nights out when everyone from college is going to it and he and i are drunk so its a bit tricky to plan as i might not see him for a bit now