(Original post by OrangeUK)
Hi all and thanks for taking the time to read this.
For the past 3 days i had planned with one of my close friends to go in to town tonight, sit in a pub for a while and then head to a club and have some drinks, yet, here i sit.
I asked him yesterday to make sure if he wanted to go tonight or not, if not i could have made other plans... Like go and see my girlfriend all day today. So, today arrived i was talking to him on Skype and he said he definitely wanted to go out and around 3 hours ago i told him "Okay, i will go for a shower just now, get ready and we will head out?".. Went, got ready, etc.. Came back to messages on Skype explaining that he didn't want to go out with just the two of us and that he would rather go in a group. This was the first thing it make me a little annoyed as he didn't bring this problem up once before.
He then asked me to go out with 2 people i did not know and someone that had slept with my ex 1 week after we broke up; this person was someone i used to speak to and generally believe was a pretty cool guy. I told him i didn't want to go out with someone like that, i told him i thought he was an okay guy - but it was just the fact he could have done that to one of his friends (at the time). Got a response saying fair enough and he understood.
Now, here is the part that really annoyed me. For the last 40-50 minutes i have been trying to get a hold of the friend i was supposed to hit the town with tonight, no answer. So, i don't think anything of it... Just think he isn't at his computer and i go on Facebook - I see he is tagged in a status saying he is going out with those 3 people.
Now, fair enough - he can go out and he can do whatever he likes... I am just more annoyed at the fact that he blew me off to go out with these other people and ignored me when i was trying to get a hold of him. Do i really have a right to be annoyed or am i overreacting?
P.S Sorry if this doesn't make much sense, i tried to make it sound as normal as i could.