[Anonymous]

Recently I have come to terms that I have a bit of a secretive life. It's nothing too bad but some people would be quite grossed out by it.

I am a virgin and haven't had many girlfriends and usually when with girls I like, even if they are a girlfriend at the time I can be very shy and so on.

Getting to my secretive life I have a secret collection of female clothes, mostly underwear, some costumes, shorts, dresses, and for the record all have been bought, I don't go around swiping anything from people's drawers or washinglines as I am aware some people do that but that is stealing and is wrong. The point is I do dress up in them in private.

I also have a pretty big collection of adut dvds, some storybased films and some just straight to the point, all are rated r as I have bought them from a licensed sex shop.

I have some toys too, I have two dildos, a few buttplugs (I am not gay as I have no attraction to men but just want to feel what it is like and fantasise being a girl sometimes) and I have a fleshlight, a handheld vagina toy and two fake vagina/ass toys, which aren't handheld.

My point is would you be grossed out by this? Is it normal? I am an average guy, it's just in private I like to do this stuff and as I want to stay a virgin and keep it special for the girl I hopefully end up with and have got to the point where we decide to be together and it is the right time, I find that the toys and dvds help me out. The dressing is kind of similar but is a little bit of a fantasy for me too, if in a proper long relationship I think the dressing could easily be stopped because I think it's just my way of getting pleasure without anyone else taking part.

[Anonymous]

Is there anyone with any thoughts? I'm aware most guys might take the mick out of me for using those things and stuff even if they don't think it's that bad but I'm curious to see what their true thoughts are and especially what the female view is on it too.

[Anonymous]

Gotta be honest, if I thought I could hide the objects in the latter half of your post reasonably well, I'd probably be the same. I don't think it's all that weird, but it is unusual for people to have such a collection.

[Miss O.C.D]

not 'grossed out' per se... just sounds a bit excessive?

[Beatrice.]

That's quite out of the ordinary but if someone who genuinely cared or liekd you found out I doubt it would make a huge difference. Depends on the person I guess.

As a stranger the first thing I hear about you is that and I'm a bit...oooer but if I think about my boyfriend randomly revealing this or my best friend then I can see myself in that position and I'd just think ''hmm, you kept that a secret'' I'd probably ask a few questions and after which I'd be cool with it. It is a bit heavy going for first convo but you can find loads of people like that on communities such as fetlife etc.

I don't see a problem with it but I can understand why someone might. :/ All the best

[Miss O.C.D]

(Original post by Beatrice.)
That's quite out of the ordinary but if someone who genuinely cared or liekd you found out I doubt it would make a huge difference. Depends on the person I guess.

As a stranger the first thing I hear about you is that and I'm a bit...oooer but if I think about my boyfriend randomly revealing this or my best friend then I can see myself in that position and I'd just think ''hmm, you kept that a secret'' I'd probably ask a few questions and after which I'd be cool with it. It is a bit heavy going for first convo but you can find loads of people like that on communities such as fetlife etc.

I don't see a problem with it but I can understand why someone might. :/ All the best

LOL you chose this thread for your first post? Welcome to You'll fit right in

[Beatrice.]

(Original post by Miss O.C.D)
LOL you chose this thread for your first post? Welcome to You'll fit right in

haha oh no, will people forever know this!?

Thank you for the welcome, let the good times roll on. woo second post!

Sorry, I don't know why I got so excited.

[Miss O.C.D]

(Original post by Beatrice.)
haha oh no, will people forever know this!?

Thank you for the welcome, let the good times roll on. woo second post!

Sorry, I don't know why I got so excited.

LOL unless someone is creepy and looks at your stats then no one will know .. except me

Nothing to be ashamed of anyway! It's a nice post. I'm Liv btw

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[sweeter than a cherry pie]

Honestly OP, I think I'd be a bit uncomfortable about your collection of women's clothes. I can't explain why, exactly, but it wouldn't sit right with me. Maybe I'd doubt your security in your gender...

The toys are fair enough, though.

[amyshamblesxx]

I don't think I'd mind if I really liked you. I mean, as long as you didn't want to actually have a sex change but just enjoyed wearing the clothes, I think I'd be ok. I'm pretty laid back I guess.

[like a boss]

You should move to Sweden. Everyone over there is like you.

[PinkyQT]

No that's normal.

[Jigglypuffx]

I think youd be more surprised at how normal this actually is dont worry - you are what youo are! youll learn not to hide it one day and its your decision on how soon that comes

[MrsLovett112]

No idea whether it's normal or not but it wouldn't creep me out in any way, I don't think. Definitely nothing wrong with cross dressing in my opinion and there's a lot of weirder stuff people are into sexually so no problem there. It's your way of keeping yourself occupied until you feel ready to commit to a woman sexually and as long as it works for you, awesome

[Factorisation]

I wouldn't bring this up as a conversation starter! But if my boyfriend revealed it to me, I think I'd just make fun of him for a while as a joke (because that's how we are) but i'd be absolutely fine with it! I'd ask where he got the clothing from, that I'd worry about, but if he said he bought it, I'd be fine with it! I'm sure these things are very normal


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[SirRamAlot]

Looooooool

[jami74]

(Does contain adult themes)

Thats a real crowd puller, do you mind if I borrow it for my next thread?


On another note, I can imagine a girl would find it quite exciting to find out her quiet, shy boyfriend had a naughty streak.

[Kabloomybuzz]

I'd actively encourage it