"It’s not that there’s anything wrong with a state school education, but I’m just glad I went to a private school. Some things only money can buy – and a good education is one of them."
Yes but that doesn't mean you can't also get a good education for free. Some good state schools are obviously better than some private schools in terms of teaching quality and/or results e.c.t.
"In my opinion, ‘posh prejudice’ is just as bad as racism or homophobia. Just because my parents paid for my education does not mean I ‘bought’ my way into Bristol. I worked just as hard to get my grades. From my perspective my parents paid two sets of school fees, mine at a price I won’t disclose, and yours, through their taxes."
Broadly agree, although wrg to the last sentance note that you (or parents) make an active choice not to go to state school.
We’d all have rather gone here……than here
I don't know about that, I would, personally, for instance hate the idea of going to somewhere like eton because I dislike having my life so rigorously organised around me or even being around people more intelligent than me! Sometimes its a great confidence boast to be 'above average' rather than struggling in the shadow of people much smarter than you. Also there are social type arguments for going to a state school too.
Yes, it may be unfair that being able to pay upwards of £12,000 a year in fees entitles you to a better education, but that’s life. You don’t get something for nothing. Private education comes with many advantages and they’re worth paying for. Some parents choose to spend their money on school fees and some spend on flashy holidays and expensive cars.
Agree with this in a way. Life is unfair in general, I mean some people are clearly more naturally intelligent than others. This is something completely out of your control, and no one would turn down the opportunity to be a genius; but then it is understandable why it is sometimes begrudged. But yes, I see nothing wrong in taking advantage of good luck.
"Private school students tend to go into the best jobs. Top private school alumni networks such as the Old Etonians or Old Harrovians, provide fantastic opportunities and this is worth the school fees alone. Although you may wish it wasn’t: it’s about who you know, not what you know.
This is probably true but a citation is really needed here, and also a scale of how much a difference it makes would be useful in assessing if it is worth it.
"Private schools have better facilities. Whilst state schools may have netball courts and hockey pitches, private schools come with stables and squash courts. This attracts students who are dedicated to various sports, which makes them leaders and team players. For this reason it’s no surprise that ex-private school students tend to have the best jobs; they’ve been trained to lead since they were children."
Probably true yes. Although I would be reluctant to form the conclusion in the last sentence without some research to back it up.
"Private schools get better results. This may be because the students who go there are cleverer: you have to pass stringent tests to get in. It may be because of smaller classes, which means more one-on-one attention so students thrive. Regardless, better results mean better prospects and that is worth paying for."
Ah, but here is the issue. You have suggested that a possible reason why private schools do better is because they receive a superior cohort in the first place. If this was the only reason why results were better, then you might as well go to a state school. In reality it is probably a combination of the two factors, and perhaps more that have not been mentioned. If it turns out though, that the inate ability of a primary school student is the dominant factor, then it could be conceivably argued that they would thrive just as well at a prospering state school.
I don’t think people can take the moral high ground that because they went to a state school they’ve earned their place at Bristol more than I have. Parents change catchment areas to get their children into the best state school, or lie about their religion – both methods are underhand in my opinion. I’d rather my parents paid for my education than resorted to such dishonest tactics.
No more than anyone can take the moral high ground for making the best of any bad (or more appropriately 'relatively worse' ) situation. Incidentally why is lying about religion or changing catchment area that bad? In the later case it isn't really dishonest, its just paying money to get into a different school in a more indirect way. And in the former case, well, religious schools are pretty immoral in themselves to be honest - granting special privileges to specific religions (or indeed a-religion) while ignoring others.