Black girls and white guys?

On average black girls tend to go for guys who would be accepted in their family as well. I know a few girls who wouldn't ever date a white guy because firstly he's white so "how would he know anything about anything we are interested in" and secondly their parents would probably laugh him out of their house. I know a Nigerian girl who dated a Vietnamese guy and she had to end it with him , because her parents didn't accept him - even though both were British.

Also a lot of black girls have already been with a black guy before - so once you go black...etc etc. I'm mixed and I don't particularly find white guys attractive, although there have been a few exceptions - it's their general vibe they give off which deters me.

I've also noticed that black guys are better at handling black girls. Black girls tend to be a lot more rowdy, and I know a lot of white guys who would easily back down, given a confrontation with the "single ladies" head movement ting.

I dont know what the question is here, I love black girls I think they are very exotic,beautiful and very sexy. I've been with white girls but I never had the opportunity to meet a nice black woman, but I would really like to. I find no cultural difference or racial, that stuff is in the past.

Lol. black girls are not my type. Even naked black girls can't turn me on, frankly.

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I like black girls, that's one person.

There is merit to some of the things you say, however other bits need challenging. The whole culture shock is relevant, even though it shouldn't be, given we all live in Britain. My ex-girlfriend was Jamaican by way of West Brom and there were lots of things I didn't get, but I tried to appreciate and understand (except dance-hall, which I'll never get). Sometimes, it's these sorts of differences which can often lead to a coming-together. I never had a problem with the family but I think there is a kernel of truth in ethnic minority families where distrust of white people is commonplace.

I don't buy the whole 'OYGBYNGB' stereotypical hype either but I would be interested in what you mean by 'general vibe'. Is this related to your last point where white men are seen as less dominant? Black guys are probably better at dealing with black women, but if interracial dating was more common, then hypothetically more white men would know how to 'handle' black women. It is only because these two groups aren't used to mixing that it happens. I don't necessarily see 'backing down' as a bad thing all the time as well. Relationships need compromise most of the time, so if you're constantly one-upping each other, it wouldn't work.

Funny you should say that - because most of the interracial relationships I have seen it's white girls and black guys. One of my black male friends told me he doesn't date black girls because there is "too much drama, they all try to act like divas instead of normal people". My boyfriend's mum is very very "up in your face" type of big lady, she is not afraid of causing a scene in the middle of lewisham shopping center if she is right (and she claps when she speaks). So it means that he doesn't really bat an eye lid when black girls do it, because he's used to it, it doesn't phase him anymore. Therefore he could handle a black girl perfectly. yes yes not all black girls are like this I don't see a white guy taking too kindly to that sort of behaviour without wanting to run a mile. (I could never do that tbh though, I don't think I have the ability to pull off any "diva" style attitude.)


Also no I don't really agree with the OYGBYNGB either tbh, but YES that's exactly what I mean - it's the alpha male, protector and slightly intimidating look that black guys have, which I don't tend to see too much in white guys. Black guys I have noticed seem to be a bit more possessive over their females, which I personally like because I feel like he's afraid to lose me. There's a few additional points as well, but it's difficult to explain.

And it's also a cultural thing, I would much prefer going to my boyfriends house and having ackee and saltfish, listening to reggaeton in the garden, then eating shepherds pie listening to gym music (also known as house). I'm stereotyping here perhaps, but I haven't really met any white guys who don't do this. I'm sure they are out there somewhere.

(My bf did make me pasta bake one time, but it wasn't nice)

Pray tell, what the hell does this stand for?

Funny you should say that - because most of the interracial relationships I have seen it's white girls and black guys. One of my black male friends told me he doesn't date black girls because there is "too much drama, they all try to act like divas instead of normal people". My boyfriend's mum is very very "up in your face" type of big lady, she is not afraid of causing a scene in the middle of lewisham shopping center if she is right (and she claps when she speaks). So it means that he doesn't really bat an eye lid when black girls do it, because he's used to it, it doesn't phase him anymore. Therefore he could handle a black girl perfectly. yes yes not all black girls are like this I don't see a white guy taking too kindly to that sort of behaviour without wanting to run a mile. (I could never do that tbh though, I don't think I have the ability to pull off any "diva" style attitude.)


Also no I don't really agree with the OYGBYNGB either tbh, but YES that's exactly what I mean - it's the alpha male, protector and slightly intimidating look that black guys have, which I don't tend to see too much in white guys. Black guys I have noticed seem to be a bit more possessive over their females, which I personally like because I feel like he's afraid to lose me. There's a few additional points as well, but it's difficult to explain.

And it's also a cultural thing, I would much prefer going to my boyfriends house and having ackee and saltfish, listening to reggaeton in the garden, then eating shepherds pie listening to gym music (also known as house). I'm stereotyping here perhaps, but I haven't really met any white guys who don't do this. I'm sure they are out there somewhere.

(My bf did make me pasta bake one time, but it wasn't nice)

You're right and I'm beginning to think that BM/WF is promoted a bit more in the media/culturally than WM/BF for whatever reason. I do think the latter though is starting to increase as more WM realise that BF are not actually all that different. My dad's a bit like that: happy to cause a scene anywhere. I just pretend he's not my dad when it happens....that's the British way of doing things.

Ah, haha, I hate guys who get possessive. I mean my GF is free to do what she wants, as it's her life, but if someone challenged me for her, I'd definitely stick up for myself. I think most guys would be like that, whatever race they happen to be, unless they're really submissive.

And tbh, I doubt you'll find many white guys who'll eat ackee or saltfish or listen to reggae! Shepards pie and House music though are popular.

I know white guys generally aren't attracted to black girls but I wondered, Is there a certain type of white guy that appreciates black girls?