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Is it ok that my boyfriend forgot my birthday?

We've been together for a year

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No. Did he forget it last year??
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Original post by lolololol
No. Did he forget it last year??


Nope but I reminded him a week before since he forgot when it was....
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But this year I decided not to tell him and he forgot :frown: it hurt me but should I be angry at him?
Yes, definitely.
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Original post by lolololol
Yes, definitely.


I'm thinking maybe it was a mistake but how do I show him it has hurt me?
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I'm thinking maybe it was a mistake but how do I show him it has hurt me?


By telling him?
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Original post by MrDystopia
By telling him?


I don't want to make it a big deal and I don't want to look like a beg. I'd like him to know but subtly
forget his birthday in return
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I don't want to make it a big deal and I don't want to look like a beg. I'd like him to know but subtly


You've been with him a year, and clearly you think it's a big deal if it's upset you. Stop beating around the bush and tell him.
Original post by anikalarson
forget his birthday in return


Haha I've remember both his birthdays already, I gave him a good present too :lol:
Dump him
Depends on how a good a boyfriend he is anyway, and he did to apologise....
I'd be pretty annoyed!

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If it has upset you this much then you should definitely tell him! And tell him to put a reminder on his phone or something
Original post by MrDystopia
You've been with him a year, and clearly you think it's a big deal if it's upset you. Stop beating around the bush and tell him.

Is the silent treatment too much?

Original post by Juan Mata
Dump him

Really?
Original post by A100whoo
Depends on how a good a boyfriend he is anyway, and he did to apologise....

He called me afterwards but Ignored him and he left a few messages saying he was sorry.
Original post by Psyc_Girl
I'd be pretty annoyed!

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I was really annoyed but more angry than annoyed

Original post by womanofsteel
If it has upset you this much then you should definitely tell him! And tell him to put a reminder on his phone or something

He said he did and last year he said he'd never forget!
It's a birthday. Get over it.


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Is the silent treatment too much?


How old are you? Just tell him.
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Really?


It suggests he doesn't care enough about you. Consider dumping him based on whether he seems interested in your life in general.

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