Well, I think two concerns that may come to mind here are:
1) the patient's wellbeing (namely, the 49 yo woman is, I guess, at a higher risk of health complications during the pregnancy);
2) the future child's wellbeing (namely, we are unsure whether the mother will be able to ensure high standards of care for the child).
As for the first concern, I, as a doctor, would share it with the patient and provide her with all the statistics and information. However, if she still insists on receiving IVF and is mentally capable enough to make such a decision, I would have to respect her autonomy and provide her with the treatment she asks for.
As for the second one, again, the potential child in question has only two options:
a) not to be born at all;
b) to be born to the said mother.
It is impossible to say which option is better because nobody can say whether is is better to live or not to live. Therefore, nothing can be done except for making sure the mother knows about any help available in the community for parents in difficult situations.
Ultimately, there is no reason for denying a woman or a couple IVF provided there a resources to carry out the treatment.
What do you think?
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