His house is really messy, what should I do?

Hi everyone

I met a guy online some months ago when I was getting over heartbreak and became quite attached (well, as attached as I can get to an online personality). I finally decided to visit him and had a really good time. One thing I can't get out of my mind was how messy his house was though . I like to keep my surroundings pristine and value good manners. He burps in front of me and does the occasional fart, which I found disgusting. His personal hygiene is good, otherwise I would have run a mile.

When we were about to go to sleep we cuddled in bed, which was nice. He wanted to have sex but I wasn't sure. I want to see him again but the thought of the messy house gives me anxiety and I don't know whether it's something I can get over. Should I get away from this situation? He seems quite attached to me and I don't want to do anything hurtful.

This has to be a troll.

If it isn't, just get over yourself.

Ask him to go to your place instead?

I'mean still a student so am living in a house share, we're also in different parts of the country. I'll see what he says if I ask him to visit my city instead.

I promise I'm not a troll. Cleanliness is very important to me.

More important than a person who could be the most important person in your life, potentially?

Clean it for him

Its not that much of an issue, surely. Unless its a right tip.

Tidy it up one day - he might get the idea.

The mess is everywhere.

I could try that once (but only once) and hope for the best. The problem is that he seems aware because he told me the week before I arrived that he needs to clean the house for me.

Clean it for him, then look forward to continue doing it for the rest of your lives together.

What kind of mess? Clothes strewn everywhere, unwashed dishes etc?

Tell him you expect him to be mature and look after his place of residence, a messy house is a sign that he is immature and/or lazy.