I'm genderfluid- AMA

Do you just suddenly feel differently throughout the day, and how often do you change in the way you feel/identify.


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When you say you feel male, what do you actually mean? Describe the feeling to us.

How do you personally give a basic definition of the word 'gender'? I've tried to educate myself and I'm still confused tbh, no one seems to be able to tell me what it actually means...

Im not the op but im female and I think i feel more male. Ive always been a tomboy and always shunned dolls and girly things as a kid and prided myself on having physical strength and manly traits. I associated girlness with weakness, i dont know what girlyness achieves (other than a man and a baby) whereas manly qualities achieve a lot - in sport, strength to fight off bullies, agression/skill to compete for jobs and yet you can still be caring at the same time if you want lol.

I used to exercise at high school and took pride in the muscles in my arms and stomach, i didnt hate my breasts but i just thought they looked in the way even and a bit daft even though they are tiny. They wernt muscle so didnt matter to me. I dont hate my body or anything as long as its tight and toned I kind of like my small waist and the way it curves in.

I would much prefere if i had the male gender role to look up to rather than the female. I like to see my body more as a physical strength machine rather than a nuturing baby making machine.

The stronger and more athletic my body is the better and more useful. Any extra fat due to female hormones and wide hips are counter productive but i dont have big hips anyway so am lucky and dont mind. If id have had big hips and breasts i might have seen my body as very limiting and a bit useless to me, id have found it harder to be me maybe.

I suppose when i think about it i feel neither male or female. I feel a little more female when i wear leggings rather than jeans but around a bunch of females i definately feel more male, stronger and 'above' all the girly chit chat. People say im very quiet. My last boyfriend said that i should have been a lad, that imnot feminine and that i walk like a man. We happened to be sat in a cafe as he said it and a Male transvestite walked down the street in a very delicate tall feminine way. I said 'well how am i supposed to walk, like that' My bf turned round and said 'YES' lol.

The ironic thing is im only 5ft and have a very small build too. Lol I dont know what I am, i think i identify more as 'tomboy female' if thats an identity. If the female gender role had all the masculine traits that would have suited me most.

Thats actually a really good question.
To me gender is how you personally see yourself- as in if you feel male, female, or another form of non-binary gender. In my opinion it doesn't have to have anything to do with your gender expression, though.
Any other questions, just feel free to ask

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