How to deal with a romantic obsession over someone

I've been thinking about her constantly for like a year now, part of me wants to move on but another part really enjoys the feeling of fantasising about her

I've been thinking about her constantly for like a year now, part of me wants to move on but another part really enjoys the feeling of fantasising about her

Either tell her how you feel or move on and find someone else. Living in a fantasy world seems fun at that moment but youre always chasing that dream of being with them, and it probably eats you up inside over time. Either be upfront or cut contact for your own mental wellbeing.

But I like having a sort of imaginary relationship with her were I plan out dates and think about having my first kiss with her and cuddling and hand holding. Also I have been guilty of stalking her in real life which I feel guilty about but I only had good intentions and I can't help that she is so amazingly wonderful and lovely

But I like having a sort of imaginary relationship with her were I plan out dates and think about having my first kiss with her and cuddling and hand holding. Also I have been guilty of stalking her in real life which I feel guilty about but I only had good intentions and I can't help that she is so amazingly wonderful and lovely

Dont you think it would be more amazing and lovely if it were real though? You could find yourself going round in these circles for year.

maybe go outdoors more...

Part of you wants this, another part of you doesn't...to do something about it, first you need to figure out what you want to do..

I mean you could try the opposite of that and try the women at the local nightclub but then again a lot of people would probably call you a creep for that aswell.