If your parents died today would you be sad?

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Reply 80

fatima1998

Original post by Cole'

hahhahahahaha...... one crazy guy

Guy?
I am female :u:

Reply 81

thefatone

Original post by loveleest

So what? Not everyone has good parents. For all you know, that parent could have been abusive...You shouldn't really be saying that unless you knew their situation.

my point exactly

Original post by Salamandastron

Mum = yes devastated, one of the few people i love to pieces :redface:

Dad = No, couldn't care less tbh, lol such a **** daughter

just like me then ^-^

Original post by Cole'

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Original post by Deyesy

Not really about my dad; like I'd go to his funeral and stuff but would I be overly upset? Probably not. My mum a little more so but I'm not that close to any of my family...apart from my cat.

haha best family is cat :biggrin:

Original post by CON5P1RACY K1D

Depends how your relationship is with your parents. I on the other hand would be devastated 😪

yup, i guess people are different

Original post by Platopus

I'd be beyond just sad if my mum died!! I haven't seen my dad in 7 years though so I don't know how I'd feel. Probably sad in a detached way?

o.o interesting

Original post by TimmonaPortella

Yes, I'd be devastated.

I'd like to offer my sympathy to everyone who wouldn't be sad. Whatever the reason for that is, it can't be good. :console:

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Original post by Dodgypirate

Original post by Moonstruck16

Stop it. Your mum having terminal cancer has nothing to do with me or anyone else and their situations. I adore my dad and would be distraught if anything happened to him. My mother, on the other hand, has been part of about 25% of my life and only about 2% of that has actually been somewhat good. Of course I would care if she died but I would be fine. There is nothing that I want to 'make the most of' with her. I haven't seen her in two years and it hasn't affected me negatively.

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fairs, i guess if you're fine with it...

Original post by Bill_Gates

a lot of women here not very keen on their dad's lol explains a lot of issues in society.

lol i'm a guy and i don't really like my dad at all :/

Original post by evalilyXOX

Yes I would be devastated !!

I am extremely close with my parents and cannot live without them !

o.o so both parents then ..

Original post by celloel

I looked through your other threads and all I could find was you saying your parents pissed you off because they asked you to look after your younger brother.

Honestly, most people on this thread saying "I wouldnt care about ______ dying" are ********ting. Sure, if your dad was never around, or sexually assaulted you, or whatever else, you probably wouldnt care. But just because they 'told me to clean my room' or 'made me babysit' or 'they yelled at me' - those aren't reasons to be happy about their deaths.

well i'm sorry but i don't feel as though i'm responsible for his well being when no-one looked after me, what has my brother only given me over the years? horse s**t that's all he got someone in a bag and handed it to me(lol jokes) but seriously he hasn't listened to me at all he only listens to "superiors" is a huge paenus under the façade of "cuteness" and vulnerability. that's his greatest strength while i don't have any strengths. i was always the one who'd get s**t form my parents even if it was my brother did something wrong. Always me me me when it's punishment but when it's my brother? oh no we can't punish him... blah blah etc etc. So why should i care? I understand people whould say family but i honestly wouldn't care, he hasn't done a single thing for me while i've done so much for him such as helping him giving support when he needed it, i'm not doing it anymore, i only did it because my parents told me too(at the time of my earlier age i didn't think for myself and whatever my parents said i though was absolute.
don't care really, honestly i'd probably be happier with 2 mums. Sexually assault me, i'll fight back and struggle.
agreed they're not but it's not just that in the past and currently which are sole reasons why i'd be happy about his death. I mean yes i would get annoyed but that would go into the bottle of emotions and i would stay quiet and do what i was told.

Original post by neb789

I'd be devastated! I'm not one to miss them when I'm away working or at uni but it would kill me to not have them here

Seems like you like your parents a lot ^-^

Original post by Sophhascoconuts

My dads a douchebag too, I'd be alright if he died. My mom is a lovely person but I think somethings wrong with me because I don't really get upset at people i love dying :/

Maybe you never truly loved them in the first place? or you're just like me, super dampened emotions and not really showing much of anything really
but same case with most like myself, dad no mum yes...
hey! i wouldn't cry over anyone's death, what's the point of holding yourself back?

Reply 82

thefatone

Original post by fatima1998

Guy?
I am female :u:

ppl don't understand gender symbols of course

Reply 83

loveleest

Original post by celloel

This sounds so ignorant. How do you know that most people on this thread are lying or not? Unfortunately not everyone is blessed with great parents, regradless if they were there or not or if their parents sexually assulted them.

Reply 84

trapking

If my parents died today I would be so low I don't even know what I would do....probably cry a lot too.

I would be so empty and lost inside :frown:

Reply 85

celloel

Original post by loveleest

The majority of teenagers that say they 'hate' their parents 'hate' them because of very petty reasons - 'My mum grounded me totally unfairly'.

Reply 86

thefatone

Original post by loveleest

thank you so much for supporting me...

Original post by celloel

The majority of teenagers that say they 'hate' their parents 'hate' them because of very petty reasons - 'My mum grounded me totally unfairly'.

dude seriously did you read my "out of money" thread? i wouldn't hate someone for something petty (i'l kill the > :smile:

) jokes it'd annoy me but probably wouldn't motivate me enough to take action.

Original post by trapking

If my parents died today I would be so low I don't even know what I would do....probably cry a lot too.

I would be so empty and lost inside :frown:

:/ seems like you're in the emotional categoryu, hope no-one's parents die too soon though :colonhash:

Reply 87

trapking

Original post by thefatone

:/ seems like you're in the emotional categoryu, hope no-one's parents die too soon though :colonhash:

Why anyone wouldn't be emotional is beyond me! They made me the man I am today and even though there have been a few sucky times I still love them a lot :smile:

Reply 88

loveleest

Original post by celloel

The majority of teenagers that say they 'hate' their parents 'hate' them because of very petty reasons - 'My mum grounded me totally unfairly'.

majority?! No, they do not and now I am pretty sure you are pulling out statistics from thin air. There are some bad parents and good parents. I just hate how society tells us that we should value our parents despite them being good parents or not.

Reply 89

thefatone

Original post by trapking

Why anyone wouldn't be emotional is beyond me! They made me the man I am today and even though there have been a few sucky times I still love them a lot :smile:

i had a revelation on when i realised that nobody actually cares about me and would be willing to help me every step of the way for anything really, that was the time i realised no-one gives one about what i think and vica versa so it's made me into the person i am today, unrelenting, cold, heartless, limited emotions..

Original post by loveleest

yup, i don't understand, i'm not going to accept everything society tells me is right or what i should do, i'm gonna put my own thoughts and judgement into things and see what i think of it.

Reply 90

drowzee

I would sad if my mum died, but my dad, no I wouldn't be sad.

Reply 91

thefatone

Original post by drowzee

I would sad if my mum died, but my dad, no I wouldn't be sad.

like me and many others :biggrin:

Reply 92

Oilfreak1

yep would be inconsolable. I'd probably feel worse about my dad than my mum since we don't always see eye to eye on things and i've said alot of things I regret since becoming a teenager.

Reply 93

thefatone

Original post by Oilfreak1

yep would be inconsolable. I'd probably feel worse about my dad than my mum since we don't always see eye to eye on things and i've said alot of things I regret since becoming a teenager.