Would you leave a woman if she didnt want to be pregnant?

My first post was not talking about people who would never want to produce children so given the response I would have thought that was your view on the matter...
I was representing people such as myself who are not in a place to make such a desicion right now.

Say you were in a relationship with a woman who, like you, wanted kids. However she really didnt want to go through 9 months of pregnancy of a baby growing inside her and she would rather adopt. Would you stay with her and be happy with adopted kids or would you leave?

For me that is not a reason to leave her. As long as our relationship is harmonic and trustful, I would not give it up.

(female here) lol i agree with @Rakas21 its attractive when a guy acts superior but not the point he treats her like trash and doesnt think shes worth but he didnt say that he said he would find a wife with good traits so his children would be great. if he find a wife that shoes hes worth him then obviously she will value him and his children and be a good dedicated mother/wife. its just his opinion and people like me agree with it so dont get offended or debate it thinking its wrong. its good to have a wife like that as i believe men should be the superior and go out and earn the money wife the stays home and raises the kids to be the best they can. thats how children achieve best when they have their mothers and feel secure.

But I would expect you to make the decision eventually (by the time you reached the age I am now at latest) and would expect you to want to have children. You're saying it's selfish to expect that and I agreed but still maintain my position.

If a girl got to 28 and still either didn't know or decided she didn't want children ever then it would be time to part ways.

>'it's attractive when a guy acts superior'
>'I believe men should be the superior [sex]'
>'men should go out and earn the money and the wife stays home and raises the kids'

Hello 1950s.

Coming from a woman too! Advocating your own inferiority! How about that for a change?

Well, I always strive for ultimate happiness in everything, which is why I think you and @Rakas21 would make a perfect couple!

Obviously you have to make that decision eventually but when I say be in the right place, it might not just be age, what if you're mentally not ready regardless of age? What if people want to achieve more in terms of the careers in their own lives before wanting kids? I'm 19 so I don't know now and don't have a clue when I'll be at a place when I can make a decision. You may have a life plan but it may not end up that way you wanted it to and kids are a part of that and it can change. I can see where you're coming from and it may be annoying if you're certain and they are not but sometimes you have to be patient with people, they may not be ready yet but they might be one day.

>'it's attractive when a guy acts superior'
>'I believe men should be the superior [sex]'
>'men should go out and earn the money and the wife stays home and raises the kids'

Hello 1950s.

Coming from a woman too! Advocating your own inferiority! How about that for a change?

Well, I always strive for ultimate happiness in everything, which is why I think you and @Rakas21 would make a perfect couple!

Ha. Bar about 5 years when she'd be spitting them out i actually expect the future wife to work somewhat so i'm a bit more modern.

Women do like a man who values themselves though which i think is what she meant. There are also plenty of women even today who are happy to be the more submissive type and let the guy make the decisions which pleases me.

Say you were in a relationship with a woman who, like you, wanted kids. However she really didnt want to go through 9 months of pregnancy of a baby growing inside her and she would rather adopt. Would you stay with her and be happy with adopted kids or would you leave?

do you know what ivf is?

For me it's somewhat dependent on whether or not you believe in 'The One' or several. It may be painful to leave her but i believe there are quite a few women you can love in your life and so holding out for one who also wants to produce your heir is valid.