the volunteering at a care home wasn't part of DofE it was extra I did in year 10 or 11, I did brownies for DofE
yes I do realise that about the personal statement I just feel like they might be like "oh wait have you been doing this whole time whilst studies" and truth is my day to day extracurricular is quite self-indulgent.
It's a bit difficult to say what I've learned from the second care home experience, honestly the only thing I learned from it was patience (they have mild dementia) and small talk since my "small talk abilites" were absolutely horrendous before I did care-home experience, probably cause it's the most boring thing on earth... I feel like
this isn't something I can put in my PS though? Double boring cause 1. small talk, 2. they had dementia so every convo was the first convo but repeated.
The first time I did care home experience I mostly spent time sorting out clean laundry (loling at this cause I actually really enjoy folding clothes, obviously don't wanna be a maid though was only fun for a bit),
I helped some of the residents eat actually but not sure what this taught me: other than the fragility of life and that one day we're all gonna either die or be in a position where you can't even remember how to eat. The little conversation I did have at this care home was actually more entertaining than the second care home, one of the women I got close to I am pretty sure was deluded of some kind as in she was seeing things (obviously not naming where or her name either so confidentiality is kept) absolutely hilarious. I spent alot of time observing residents more than talking to them, and I could expand on this but it would be more philosophical and artistic commentary rather than medical (one of the residents though a toy dog was a real dog and was walking it up and down the hallway lmao).
So I am really unsure on how to include these types of things in my personal statement. I do understand that however, care homes are there to support these people, I just hope that I am never subject to one in my life and my children will care for me.
thanks for your help though
I was actually told to keep a diary, I wish I did but at the time I didn't know what to put it sounds so weird trying to write it. I do remember key experiences quite well despite being 2 years ago.