Haven't had sex with my girlfriend in 3 months... Should I call it a day?

To say other things are more important in a relationship than sex is pointless. It's equally as important as other things. Although it really depends on each person.

It sounds like he's already talked to her anyway.

I didnt say that sex is not important but lets face it there are bigger problems than lack of sex temporarily. I said that relationships can present other/bigger problems down the line than no sex for a few months ie financial, health problems, childcare. Successful relationships can depend on how well you can solve the problems together and your feelings for each other. If he wasnt going to get sex ever again off her well thats different. She needs to be more honest with him though as it sounds like shes not trying.

If you believe certain things are more important than sex then thats fine, but personally and along with other people in this thread sex is vital for a healthy relationship.

I haven't had sex with my girlfriend for over 3 months now. The sex started to get irregular at the beginning of last summer - and she said she would see a doctor about contraception. Summer past and she didn't go to the doctor. Sex from summer time became irregular, about once a month and then after Christmas has just stopped completely. She said before Christmas that she would go to the doctor in the Christmas holidays but never did. She would rather go to her own doctor in her home town than the STD clinic where she can get the same thing in her uni town. She says she will go in the Easter holidays - but I have my doubts. She doesn't trust condoms and doesn't want other forms of contraception in case there is any side effects?

She says she wants to have sex with me but doesn't want to get pregnant?

Am I selfish if after the Easter holidays if she doesn't want to have sex to call It a day?

That goes back to my previous point though why not try to work things out first (if he hasn't already) rather than leaving just because he has had no sex. It is important but in relationships temporary sacrifices might have to be made on both parts to get a relationship on track. Like when a woman gets pregnant the guy will often have to go without sex temporarily if it's uncomfortable for her and the women will have to sacrifice her body for 9 months to a fetus lol. I agree sex is obviously vital for a healthy relationship to many people and I think it would be more than fair for him to leave if she was never going to have sex again! But going temporarily without sex for a few months in a serious relationship to sort out some issues I don't think is too much to ask.

Well I couldn't last 3 months without sex in my current relationship.

Are you sure you couldn't or you just wouldn't . Hm well fair do's, maybe it's just me not understanding what it's like to have a good sex drive as I could go a long time without so I guess I'm biased on this topic.

i mean personally i think sex is a really important part of a relationship, i think she has insecurities of some sort... i got my first contraception at a sexual health clinic and it was fine so i don't see why she would have issues with that?? idk.

i'd end it tbh, i like to have sex and i feel good sex is an important foundation for a good and happy relationship

Every single little word and little letter and sentence is correct.

I hate these people who try to vilify those that require sex in a relationship. If he didn't talk to her for 3 months there would be no qualms with dumping him so if sex was a part of the relationship and that has been taken off the table it is perfectly reasonable for you to give an ultimatum.