A post about the guys who gym 24/7 and are able to become male strippers because of it. the very extreme end of the spectrum/answer this question/thread seeks.
I will be honest. lifting for females (who don't go to the gym) is.. a shallow dream at best and a vile, dark, unending black hole at worst (because you'll find that despite it all, if you really were to chase after a shallow dream as that, you will Never be enough. you will Never be built enough, or muscled enough, or be the most shredded. there will always be someone better. someone able to do what you can't. show off what you cant. these would be who the females would be chasing despite all your success. you'd lose sight of your own progress purely because you can't see your own goals, as you'd be focused on ass. why spend all that time, effort, sacrifice and dedication {which is hard enough to come by as it} chasing after a pipe-dream? never mind the fact that in the midst of it all, you won't be able to do both, as there won't be enough time in the world for that. in order to properly realize that dream that you currently have, you'd have to sacrifice everything just to get a taste of that muscled-body grail. would be like searching for a needle in a hay stack, except the needle is 1/10th the size, was never there to begin with & the 'hay' is toxic and damaging to your very being. you can't live twice, why add unnecessary stress to an already pressurized endeavour?).
Never lift for females. I say this, as i've personally known addicts and seen what it does to them. the lengths they'd go to achieve what they want.. quickly. so they can go out and start pulling. at the same time, i've known those who wanted to lift to impress females (half of which quit because it 'was too hard') the other half of which lost interest in impressing females Even though they had met their body goal. Why? because when they did, when they stuck through it all, when they rose up every day break, even as the first rays shone through the cracks in the frosty atmosphere; when they mastered their craft, it became a matter of clarity. one of which became a realization that (ordinary females who don't go to the gym/know about it's regime) females do not know how much.. time, blood (some take steriods, some risk life), sweat and tears it took. How risky it was to get to the level they're at. How much temptation and trials they had to go through.. just to attain that shape. in the end, all that ever mattered is/was/should be the respect given by other body-building guys around you {as they'd know the lifetime it'd have taken to get there physically; mentally, emotionally, psychologically. the tough choices you had to take. and ultimately, whether it was worth it} (at worst) and if You were comfortable with where you are (at best). in short, they (referring to females who don't lift) do not know how much dedication it would've taken but are willing to chase after the nearest 'buff' guy they see. But then that is understandable, because if they (same females) had been the target/reason for going to the gym, they (males who go gym) never would've seen the desire to the end would they? they'd have been to busy getting distracted (and ultimately losing time/obtaining failure) by every piece (female who don't go gym) that walked past for them to focus on a single thing for a minute.
**** a hoe. Do it for you. Or don't do it at all.