We're both exclusive, we're both aware of each others' sexual history (I have never had unprotected sex and she has only had it with her last boyfriend of nearly 2 years) and trust each other enough to know we are telling the truth.

She doesn't want to use condoms because sex is better without them.

Reply 45

username155270

Original post by dean01234

I'm really not sure what your advice is here, you still risk STD's finishing outside... So its terrible advice if you don't think OP can trust her. But we're not talking about one night stands, OP is seeing this girl. Its likely that if they're responsible they've both been tested and he'll know her better than any of us.

As for the question, let her know when you're close and she'll tell you if she wants you to pull out.

It's so pathetic how naive some people are.

Reply 46

Anonymous #1

Original post by SmallTownGirl

Ask. If you're having sex with someone (or planning to) then you should be mature enough to talk about this stuff and respect them enough to care what they think.

I have no issues bringing it up, however I do feel like doing so before we have sex isn't very romantic or sexy.

This thread is gold.

Original post by Anonymous

I have no issues bringing it up, however I do feel like doing so before we have sex isn't very romantic or sexy.

Mate, discussions about consent and boundaries (as well as talking about things like safer sex and contraceptives) may not be the biggest turn on but they are essential.

Reply 49

keturah

If you don't want to ask, maybe just say I really want to finish on your boobs/tummy etc.

Reply 50

Anonymous #2

Original post by keturah

If you don't want to ask, maybe just say I really want to finish on your boobs/tummy etc.

lol tummy? If during sex i said 'babe can i cum on your tummy?" id probably get a slap :lol:

Reply 51

Josb

Original post by keturah

If you don't want to ask, maybe just say I really want to finish on your boobs/tummy etc.

Repped.

Reply 52

User947387

Original post by Anonymous

lol tummy? If during sex i said 'babe can i cum on your tummy?" id probably get a slap :lol:

You: "I'd like to pay you either a really big compliment, or really big insult."

Her: Whats that?"

"You: "Oh well, it will save you a trip to boots"

:colone:

Spoiler

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 53

Josb

Original post by Anonymous

lol tummy? If during sex i said 'babe can i cum on your tummy?" id probably get a slap :lol:

Girls are kinkier than you think.

Reply 54

dairychocolate

Original post by loveleest

She sounds quite careless. Why doesn't she not want to use a condom?

Because sex feels way better without a piece of latex in the way?

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 55

loveleest

Original post by dairychocolate

Because sex feels way better without a piece of latex in the way?

Would it still feel better even if she catches an std? :tongue:

Reply 56

LittleMissMay

Original post by Anonymous

bump

don't want to ask if it's going to spoil the mood

You had to bump because everyone went to fap. Anyway I think it would be weird if you were mid-climax and said, "Where... :pee:

Where?!"

Original post by Darien91

If she doesn't want to use condoms she's perfectly happy for you to finish inside her ha. you can ask where to finish if you're feeling spicy then ruin her hair/fake tan on her back or go in her mouth