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Boyfriend doesnt want me to get a tattoo but i really want one.

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Original post by AmazingArry
No it isn't. Unless it's a butterfly on your lower back, then a tattoo isn't a comment on someone's sexual activity.

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Thats so misogynistic nothing like that should comment peoples sexual activity but the world doesn't' work like that. By their inherent nature tattoos are seen as trashy
Original post by SmallTownGirl
It's OP's body. No-one has to 'take into account' another person's opinion on what they do with their body. No-one is saying OP's boyfriend has to stay in the relationship whatever. But NO-ONE has the right to tell another person what to do with their body. Body autonomy doesn't end when you get into a romantic and/or sexual relationship.


I think you have a delusional view of relationships if you think physical attraction is
irrelevant.

No matter how much we pretend otherwise all relationships come down to a sacrifice of (some degree of) independence, if I stop brushing my teeth and my breath starts smelling is she shallow for no longer wanting to have sex with me? To say that she has a right to body autonomy is to point out the obvious, of course she does, but I have the right to leave if her choices aren't to my liking.
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tell him to go **** himself and get one anyway
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Original post by Anonymous
I want a medium sized tattoo on my shoulder and also was thinking of getting one on my leg. My boyfriend has been begging me not to though as he says they dont look nice on women. The thing is he has a total of 9 including a big one covering his shoulder! How can someone who has tattoos themself not like them? Am i supposed to just tespect his wishes and not get any?


Stand up for equal rights and get it tattooed on your face instead. That'll show him.
Original post by Goaded
tell him to go **** himself and get one anyway


As much as I admire your rebel attitude it won't get you very far with a decent guy, not that it isn't attractive for a short ****ing mind you
If you wnt one just get it you cnt
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Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
As much as I admire your rebel attitude it won't get you very far with a decent guy, not that it isn't attractive for a short ****ing mind you


im not tryna get far with any guy, thank you.

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im not tryna get far with any guy, thank you.

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Meh relationships are easy when you have don't have any responsibilities
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Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
Meh relationships are easy when you have don't have any responsibilities


how do you know i don't? i mean i'm only a full time carer for a disabled mother and brother
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how do you know i don't? i mean i'm only a full time carer for a disabled mother and brother


That's good, i'm talking about your 4 year relationship. You must have been young right?
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Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
That's good, i'm talking about your 4 year relationship. You must have been young right?


yes but i've been a carer since 10, his mum died half way through?? i mean you don't really know anything

plus we lived together for 2 of them years cause his mum died and he had nowhere to live so there's also that
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yes but i've been a carer since 10, his mum died half way through?? i mean you don't really know anything

plus we lived together for 2 of them years cause his mum died and he had nowhere to live so there's also that


Wtf

That's rough, ok yours is a bit atypical, was going to ask why you broke up but it doesn't exactly sound like a fun story.
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Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
Wtf

That's rough, ok yours is a bit atypical, was going to ask why you broke up but it doesn't exactly sound like a fun story.


oh the break up was fine, we still friends, just didn't feel it anymore. it was fine, sounds worse than it was, my parents were still together when we were together so it was easier:redface:

my older brother got his girlfriend pregnant at 15, so could be way worse?:biggrin:
Original post by Alexion
He can't tell you what to do... go for it :cute:


But he can find himself a non tattoed girl to pork
Original post by SmallTownGirl
If you want tattoos then get them. If your boyfriend likes you as a person (rather than based on misogynistic views of how you look) then he shouldn't be less attracted to you because you've made a personal decision about your body and he should support your choices.


Misogynistic to not be attracted to girls with tattoos. Incredible stuff
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oh the break up was fine, we still friends, just didn't feel it anymore. it was fine, sounds worse than it was, my parents were still together when we were together so it was easier:redface:

my older brother got his girlfriend pregnant at 15, so could be way worse?:biggrin:


If that happened to me i'd tell my parents I was going to France with my friends and then cross the Spanish border and live in a remote village.
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Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
If that happened to me i'd tell my parents I was going to France with my friends and then cross the Spanish border and live in a remote village.


he does live in germany now:laugh:

nah they're still together at 22 and married now so all is good
Just get one if you want one, seems straightforward enough to me.
Original post by Betelgeuse-
Misogynistic to not be attracted to girls with tattoos. Incredible stuff


If my love for someone was based on my love for their un-tattooed body then there's something wrong with me.
I absolutely hate tattoos, but don't let him dictate to you.

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