I'd be confused too. Dealing with this headache of an insecure bastard as well.
I'll tell you what happened and where we are now if I may (I'd dm you but you're in Anonymous):
so he and I had a class last year together, but he never spoke, never really acknowledged my existence but I've caught him checking me out. That's honestly all the indicator I need. So I'm used to guys staring but being shy with me so I decide let me warm up and be nice to him from time to time without looking thirsty. So I thank him for emailing me an assignment, the first words I ever uttered in his direction. He texts back right away with "you're welcome!
." So I leave it there. Now he knows I'm not frigid I suppose was my goal.
Next time I see him we're in the library and he doesn't queue on the queue, though he's queuing lol because he stands in the front of the line facing me and he's on his phone. He looks up when he sees I notice him and smiles like a sexy hey smile and walks over to me, so we speak blah blah. Well we start talking from there veeerry closely, dating, sexting etc but he's much older than me and kinda shy around me even though he's the most popular and professor-praised student on our course!?
So I'm confused like wth, you're a philanderer
a player
So I tell him that
and so he tells me to leave him alone and I say no lol and demand he explains why he toyed with me. He says he didn't, he wanted a relationship but I showed him a have a temper and he's using that as an excuse
So for the past month or so it's been me trying to make nice with him, and he responds being cordial, then won't respond sometimes, then sees me in person and doesn't speak which pisses me off because we're very close like I've seen your penis dude, but then he randomly stops by to see me
So I'm thinking even though it sucks he was probably trying to be nice just to calm me down and he still wants to sex me but doesn't want to text me
which is a big hell to the mother****ing no so I'm single and hate life and **** men