Just got officially diagnosed with Asperger's, AMA

Not always. Repetitive patterns is normal but nonverbal communication is just one facet; some of us are able to read people pretty much as well as NTs are, and in some cases even better - for example I can always tell (in a face-to-face setting) if someone is lying to me.

Also I know aspies who are very much at ease in social situations, having no problems interacting.

And concerning intelligence and language, again most aspies I know of are incredibly intelligent, creative, and polymathic. One of my friends paints, sculpts, plays various instruments, and writes. I myself write, play instruments, and have a high level of expertise in radio and computing technologies at the low level. I also know a dozen languages, at one point having collected them like you might collect stamps.

How is an 'aspie' who has above average non verbal communication and social skills an aspie at all?

Thought patterns. It's not in the retardedness, it's in the way a person thinks. Not only that, but people with Asperger's are able to learn the social skills when they aren't there already, it's just initially more of a conscious effort.

If you want any more than that, I would suggest you get in touch with a clinical psychologist.

Having obsessions is seen as a symptom of Asperger's syndrome, is their anything that you're really really passionate about?

Sex.

Saddo

Don't tell me you don't like making passionate love to someone you like.

^^^

Adolf hitler was a nice guy i believe