Why do guys text loads and then go silent?

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I think I might know who this is dose your name begin with D LOL

You should totally let the guys who will message you back into your life. They're normally a little less attractive, or not at all, relatively well educated and not up for sex or nudes. Sound good? Good. Because only dicks, pricks and douchebags fail to respond to messages.

I may take a while, but if you can hold up a conversation as well as I can, you will always get a reply.

Jesus Christ this is crap advice.

Sometimes guys and girls just don't have time for some of the **** texts that girls or people in general post. I think people who don't respond to texts that involve them needing something from another person(like a general nice post) is poor game personally. Personally I don't have time for the small talk how's life crap and just speak about the real reason why I tried to talk to you. I expect the same for other people, you're wasting my time saying what you really want to say in 10 texts that can be said in one.

If he likes you just kick it up a notch OP, spend more time with them and see whether they feel the same it's as simple as that.

Plus anyway it could be the case that the guy is unsure of what to say or just doesn't want to have a conversation at that moment in time. Some people you speak with when you send a few texts turns out to be a long winded conversation that you don't have time for.

Yeah same tbh I find texting and speaking to people over social media a bit draining in general and would rather see them in person. My convos always seem to never end when I just cba with talking over the phone but this guy replied fairly quickly and wrote quite in depth texts so it didn't seem like he disliked texting or snap chatting.

Surely it wouldn't be difficult to send a snapchat though?

He hasn't asked me out yet though and instead the contact seems to have significantly reduced. And I dont want to to ask him out since Im a believer in traditional relationships and the guy taking the lead, its just what I'd prefer.

I think I ought to move on though if I haven't heard from him at all?

Well op. Sorru to bust your bubble, but some men in the 21st century arebt like that (you know, dur to "equality" & all that)

So my advice is like the last guys; but with an add on.

Suck it up, ask him out & see what happens. Not everything in life happens the way we want it. If guys can sstruggle for a millenia to deal with rejection, the surely one question shouldnt be too difficult. If you truly want him that is & wouldnt want him with someone else..

Maybe he's just too busy? If he's not interested anymore, then just move on with your life.

Calling @WoodyMKC for some advice, he always seems to know what he's talking about (not stalking, just observed!)

It drives me nuts not knowing if they've lost interest or what, and it alwaaays seems to happen. I get annoyed and want to delete their number but that might be a bit rash :/

Girls does this happen to you? :

It drives me nuts not knowing if they've lost interest or what, and it alwaaays seems to happen. I get annoyed and want to delete their number but that might be a bit rash :/

Girls does this happen to you? :

Thanks very much, but this is a tough one to answer as all guys are different

I mean, many guys know that the way to make a woman obsess over you is to ignore them, and they might be so inclined to play a few games to get you right on the hook so to speak.

Sometimes, though, other things get in the way. It's true that guys generally are crap at multi-tasking. Girls can be out shopping with their friends, or doing whatever they do for fun, and still be texting at the same time, whereas most guys tend to not have their minds on more than one thing at a time once they become immersed in something. Even if they notice their phone going off and they look at their phone and see a text message, if it's not urgent they'll probably just think "I'll text back soon" and will do so once they get a chance to relax without distraction.

And then they text you months later. So strange.

Ah, yes. Happens all the time, but usually its for a good reason, like; "sorry, I had to help my mum with something", "So sorry, fell asleep" etc. you get it. But I think that crazy paranoia of "oh well, he must be cheating on me because its taking him 2 minutes to reply back to my text!" is part of texting someone you like. Don't worry about it too much, just enjoy the craziness of the new level of stupidity we all enter into when we start talking to people we hope will be our future boyfriends,girlfriends etc.

Although may I add that crazy paranoia should not continue into your relationship, thats a red flag right there people. Just so we don't get confused about that :/

I've had texts weeks later, never months, and even then they text and STILL leave you hanging Like why even bother