Got an escort, is it wrong?

So after a few years of trying to get a gf, and no success, and a few crushes that just left me sad, I said **** it and got an escort.
I'm 18 and she was 19.
I was quite nervous/awkward and I don't really regret doing it, like I am going back to her when I get the money, but I feel somewhat like I've done something wrong, obviously I would have liked to lost my virginity to one of the girls I was in love with, but I can't talk to girls over text(I'm ****ing terrible at reading signals and flirting), that and the girl I was in love with was 15 so even if she did like me back...I wouldn't have had sex with her. So I feel slightly regretful that it wasn't to someone special, but I did enjoy it. Is it wrong to get an escort(morally speaking).
It was slightly awkward as she was taller than me, haha, but I really wanted a bit of intimacy with a female, like I hadn't kissed a girl before her(though it wasn't a proper kiss, no tongues) and I cuddled her a lot as well, did what I wanted to do and touched what I wanted to. I wore a condom so I'm not worried about disease. Was it wrong of me?

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Reply 1

Anonymous #2

loooooooooooooooooooooool

Reply 2

ODES_PDES

I missed your point in all that graphic detail
:redface:

Reply 3

BWV1007

It's only wrong if you let yourself feel that it is - it's just an escort.

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.

That is quite a sad story. Instead of being desperate and getting an 'escort' why don't you better yourself as a person and maybe then you'll find a gf? I mean the fact that you actually gave up on getting a girlfriend and got an escort instead speaks for itself, not sure you're the type of person girls want to date.

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Reply 5

Anonymous #3

Original post by BWV1007

It's only wrong if you let yourself feel that it is - it's just an escort.

Just an escort? More like a prostitute.

Reply 6

BWV1007

Original post by Anonymous

Just an escort? More like a prostitute.

What's wrong with prostitutes? If you don't like them don't **** them.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by ODES_PDES

I missed your point in all that graphic detail
:redface:

I could go into more about what I did if you want lol

Reply 8

user382

Nope.

Things don't always work out how you want them to.

Good for you. :wink:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

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It's legal, not gonna lie I feel much happier now I have had some intimacy with the other sex. I've been trying really hard to get a gf and it just hasn't happened so.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

what? I assume you think it was wrong then?

Reply 11

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

It's legal, not gonna lie I feel much happier now I have had some intimacy with the other sex. I've been trying really hard to get a gf and it just hasn't happened so.

Lol ok then just take the easy option and **** a prostitute, well done mate.

Reply 12

Anonymous #3

Original post by BWV1007

What's wrong with prostitutes? If you don't like them don't **** them.

The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Lol ok then just take the easy option and **** a prostitute, well done mate.

I assume you find it easy to get girls, in which case you wouldn't understand.

Reply 14

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.

Maybe where you are it its, but not in the UK.

OP dont worry about it, as long as it was two consenting adults, then its nobody elses business.

Reply 15

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.

What is wrong with them? As long as she's genuinely consenting.

Reply 16

BubbleBoobies

how much did it cost?
how good was it? what did she do?

Reply 17

BWV1007

Original post by Anonymous

The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.

Really. Do you have a problem with gays then? If you don't, it's time to realise that sexual intercourse between any two or more consenting non-blood related adults is perfectly fine in most cases - same as homosexual relationships.

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

160 for an hour, but without the agency it will cost me 80 for a n hour,she was actually really nice and we spoke for a bit about stuff,she wasn't amazingly hot,but defo better than what I could get.It was a bit awkward though haha.I'm glad it wasn't with a gf or girl I like when I think about it, as I probably seemed quite pathetic, like the way I cuddled her and such, didn't really take control either I let her do that. Though I did touch/do what I wanted. And the fact she said to relax and that I was nervous, that and she said when I contact her to say it was her baby, yeah she called me that haha because of the way I wasn't really dominant, that and I was probably the youngest she's been with.

Reply 19

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

I assume you find it easy to get girls, in which case you wouldn't understand.

No actually. Yet I don't give up straight off the bat and go **** a prostitute. That's seriously low and it really does tell people something about the kind of person you are. If you're the type of guy to go and sleep with a prostitute at only 18 years old, then that is surely an indicator that you're also the type of guy girls don't want to date. There's a reason for why he can't get a girlfriend. Work on that and there you go. And it's not necessarily about looks, girls usually like confident, well dressed/groomed, polite/respectful guys, not teenage trash that are desperate for sex.

PS: You can't "get girls", they're not objects so don't treat them like they are. That's a good step towards becoming a better person and possibly one step closer to "getting girls" :wink: