Got an escort, is it wrong?

Where were you escorted too?

Really. Do you have a problem with gays then? If you don't, it's time to realise that sexual intercourse between any two or more consenting non-blood related adults is perfectly fine in most cases - same as homosexual relationships.

The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.

Well what is the answer if it is so obvious?

So after a few years of trying to get a gf, and no success, and a few crushes that just left me sad, I said **** it and got an escort.
I'm 18 and she was 19.
I was quite nervous/awkward and I don't really regret doing it, like I am going back to her when I get the money, but I feel somewhat like I've done something wrong, obviously I would have liked to lost my virginity to one of the girls I was in love with, but I can't talk to girls over text(I'm ****ing terrible at reading signals and flirting), that and the girl I was in love with was 15 so even if she did like me back...I wouldn't have had sex with her. So I feel slightly regretful that it wasn't to someone special, but I did enjoy it. Is it wrong to get an escort(morally speaking).
It was slightly awkward as she was taller than me, haha, but I really wanted a bit of intimacy with a female, like I hadn't kissed a girl before her(though it wasn't a proper kiss, no tongues) and I cuddled her a lot as well, did what I wanted to do and touched what I wanted to. I wore a condom so I'm not worried about disease. Was it wrong of me?

No actually. Yet I don't give up straight off the bat and go **** a prostitute. That's seriously low and it really does tell people something about the kind of person you are. If you're the type of guy to go and sleep with a prostitute at only 18 years old, then that is surely an indicator that you're also the type of guy girls don't want to date. There's a reason for why he can't get a girlfriend. Work on that and there you go. And it's not necessarily about looks, girls usually like confident, well dressed/groomed, polite/respectful guys, not teenage trash that are desperate for sex.

PS: You can't "get girls", they're not objects so don't treat them like they are. That's a good step towards becoming a better person and possibly one step closer to "getting girls"

Of course I don't have a problem with homosexuality. I never said the sole act of having sex is wrong, it's the fact that one member of the party (or more) is actually selling their body in exchange for sex. Just what the **** man. Not to mention the risk of STI's, unwanted pregnancies, issues with the law etc.

How tall are you? How tall was she?

There are multiple, just human respect and decency for one. The fact that you're selling and in multiple ways exploiting your body in exchange for money and/or other, materialistic goods. STI's are another thing, obviously, and condoms only protect so much. It's also the fact that this guy is talking about trying to get a girlfriend, and then going off and ****ing a prostitute. Now what does that imply? That he was desperate, and just wanted to **** someone he has feelings for? Doesn't getting an 'escort' go against what this guy said he's looking for?

There are multiple, just human respect and decency for one. The fact that you're selling and in multiple ways exploiting your body in exchange for money and/or other, materialistic goods. STI's are another thing, obviously, and condoms only protect so much. It's also the fact that this guy is talking about trying to get a girlfriend, and then going off and ****ing a prostitute. Now what does that imply? That he was desperate, and just wanted to **** someone he has feelings for? Doesn't getting an 'escort' go against what this guy said he's looking for?

Why wont you answer my questions? Do you hate me?

Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.

That is quite a sad story. Instead of being desperate and getting an 'escort' why don't you better yourself as a person and maybe then you'll find a gf? I mean the fact that you actually gave up on getting a girlfriend and got an escort instead speaks for itself, not sure you're the type of person girls want to date.

I do dress well and I've been told by multiple friends I am too nice to them. I can't really say I have a lot of confidence, and I'm not good at talking to girls.

Mate, I read that and it's the exact same thing that happened to me don't feel bad, I was in no position to talk to girls (confidence) and just thought if i died tomorrow at least I can say I lost my virginity, no regrets whatsoever 6 months later, but I did go back twice, what I would say is don't go back, your craving intimacy and you're just temporarily filling that filling, 6 months later I'm soo much more confident with not only talking to girls but life in general it's ridiculous because it feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders, and ignore the idiots who are putting you down, they're arguments make no sense, athletes exploit the body they were given for money and materialistic goods, does that make it wrong? f**k no