Why are you so insistent on trying to pretend there's someone agreeing with you by using anon? You've already outed yourself.
What most likely happened: OP told her dad, her dad didn't care. She told TSR, TSR didn't care. She kept whining at her dad about it, eventually he gave in to shut her up and mentioned it to the school (who also didn't particularly care), the teacher got a slap on the wrist.