Abusive parents help

You can go to the police in a different area to report the abuse. Your little brother might not be getting abuse aimed at him but witnessing violence and abuse is equally as damaging as receiving it.

I understand that this is very difficult for you. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Thanks for reading. I am 19 and my parents, specially my mum, is and has always been abusive. Dhe always has something to complain about, talks badly about people constantly and complainsabout her life even though she has everything she could ask for. When she argues with me or my sister, all she does is spill it out to everyone and when we don't argue, she still belittles us in front of people when she has the chance. She's always used violent methods to punish us and says it's ok and she can do what she wants "under her roof" when we highlight it. This and much more, to the point that I spend every day all day in my bedroom or at my gf's, whom I can't bring home because my mother will take the oportunity to "make things interesting". To make this whole situation worse, my dad works at the police and doesn't do anything about it cause she'll threaten him with divorce. I also have a little brother, but he's her favourite dince he always sticks on her side and gets in between when we argue and tells her everything she needs to know to be on the high side. Eg: he looked through all of my drawers once while I was at college and found condoms and told her. I'll come back to that later.
The other day, my sister arrived from argentina after being there for a few months. My sister and my mother have always had much more friction than I and my mother have. Anyway, my mother was being very annoying and interrupting her conversations every 10 seconds to ask questions that were simply not her problem. My sister is 31 now. So my sister walks away and comes to the living room with me. My mother later comes and they start arguing about something as usual. However, my sister said something that must have touched my mother's nerve and she tried to kick my sister out. My sister sat and refused to move until she was gone, so my mother started dragging her from her hair. That is until I stood up and stopped her and shouted at her very angrily. Dad then came down and pushed me around while mother was happy in the back. I left the house with my sister, and as I walked away, my mother runned upstairs to my room, took the condoms out and ran after me while waving them and mocking me about them.
I left the house for 3 days and I'm back now but as soon as I arrived she started abusing me again and entering my room to shout at my face.
There's a lot more but as you may imagine, I could be here all day. I need help. I depend of my home and of them financially since I'm studying and going to uni in september, but I really can't stand it anymore. I'm a 19 yo guy that's had to leave the house twice now because of physical and mental abuse and I can't cope with that, a job and my studies which I am juggling right now. I can't call the childline because I'moverge and I can't move out because I simply can't afford it. I know I'll be out in september but another 5 months of this is truly unbeareable. I don't care about the concequences but my parents need to be checked up and to realise that they don't rule the law any differently in their house. What can I do? The internet seems to be useless with this kind of situation.

as long as dad is fine with it and is financially stable why not? i see no problem fk your mum(not literally .-.) let her do what she wants in life when the divorce comes.

out of interest how old is your mom?? Btw you could say at least you get some while she doesn't xD

i mean just ignore them or try and get some help from school or somewhere else with some sort of authority...
fight back, you're old enough, you can be right but ignorance is bliss so if your mum ignores your brilliant comebacks then there's not much you can do :/ but in your heart you'll know that you were right.
if you need any help with arguments or comebacks just reply to me i'm sure i can help

as long as dad is fine with it and is financially stable why not? i see no problem fk your mum(not literally .-.) let her do what she wants in life when the divorce comes.

out of interest how old is your mom?? Btw you could say at least you get some while she doesn't xD

i mean just ignore them or try and get some help from school or somewhere else with some sort of authority...
fight back, you're old enough, you can be right but ignorance is bliss so if your mum ignores your brilliant comebacks then there's not much you can do :/ but in your heart you'll know that you were right.
if you need any help with arguments or comebacks just reply to me i'm sure i can help

I just want some organisation that will come up to the door and sit them down for a talk. Then keep an eye on them and make a check up every once in a while with the threat that if they do something out of place during that time, they will be prosecuted. Or at least a warning if that's too much to ask. Ideally, I'd like someone to help me be away from them and help me move out but since I'm far from being a priority, that wouldn't happen.

What county are you in?

Haha thanks. Dad would not be fine with that or he wouldn't be sticking up for her. And about comebacks, don't worry, my sister and I are comeback masters by now with all the times mum has commented nastily about literally anything to us. she's quite savage though, always says what she shouldn't and strikes where it most hurts and she won't stop herself of going too far with her comments. She's a very racist and inconsiderate person and I'm sure that secretly believes herself to be perfect, or so it seems. Due to this, I've learnt to be very secretive since little and all I have learnt from her is how much I don't want to be like her :/
I would go to the police, but I just want some organisation that will come up to the door and sit them down for a talk. Then keep an eye on them and make a check up every once in a while with the threat that if they do something out of place during that time, they will be prosecuted. Or at least a warning if that's too much to ask. Ideally, I'd like someone to help me be away from them and help me move out but since I'm far from being a priority, that wouldn't happen. All my friends are in uni or I'd move out with them and pay monthly, or I'd go with my gf but that would implicate getting to college late an hour every day which I can't do. It's a crap situation :/ thanks for the good vibe haha

And to answer your question, she's 55

Thanks for reading. I am 19 and my parents, specially my mum, is and has always been abusive. Dhe always has something to complain about, talks badly about people constantly and complainsabout her life even though she has everything she could ask for. When she argues with me or my sister, all she does is spill it out to everyone and when we don't argue, she still belittles us in front of people when she has the chance. She's always used violent methods to punish us and says it's ok and she can do what she wants "under her roof" when we highlight it. This and much more, to the point that I spend every day all day in my bedroom or at my gf's, whom I can't bring home because my mother will take the oportunity to "make things interesting". To make this whole situation worse, my dad works at the police and doesn't do anything about it cause she'll threaten him with divorce. I also have a little brother, but he's her favourite dince he always sticks on her side and gets in between when we argue and tells her everything she needs to know to be on the high side. Eg: he looked through all of my drawers once while I was at college and found condoms and told her. I'll come back to that later.
The other day, my sister arrived from argentina after being there for a few months. My sister and my mother have always had much more friction than I and my mother have. Anyway, my mother was being very annoying and interrupting her conversations every 10 seconds to ask questions that were simply not her problem. My sister is 31 now. So my sister walks away and comes to the living room with me. My mother later comes and they start arguing about something as usual. However, my sister said something that must have touched my mother's nerve and she tried to kick my sister out. My sister sat and refused to move until she was gone, so my mother started dragging her from her hair. That is until I stood up and stopped her and shouted at her very angrily. Dad then came down and pushed me around while mother was happy in the back. I left the house with my sister, and as I walked away, my mother runned upstairs to my room, took the condoms out and ran after me while waving them and mocking me about them.
I left the house for 3 days and I'm back now but as soon as I arrived she started abusing me again and entering my room to shout at my face.
There's a lot more but as you may imagine, I could be here all day. I need help. I depend of my home and of them financially since I'm studying and going to uni in september, but I really can't stand it anymore. I'm a 19 yo guy that's had to leave the house twice now because of physical and mental abuse and I can't cope with that, a job and my studies which I am juggling right now. I can't call the childline because I'moverge and I can't move out because I simply can't afford it. I know I'll be out in september but another 5 months of this is truly unbeareable. I don't care about the concequences but my parents need to be checked up and to realise that they don't rule the law any differently in their house. What can I do? The internet seems to be useless with this kind of situation.

Thanks for reading. I am 19 and my parents, specially my mum, is and has always been abusive. Dhe always has something to complain about, talks badly about people constantly and complainsabout her life even though she has everything she could ask for. When she argues with me or my sister, all she does is spill it out to everyone and when we don't argue, she still belittles us in front of people when she has the chance. She's always used violent methods to punish us and says it's ok and she can do what she wants "under her roof" when we highlight it. This and much more, to the point that I spend every day all day in my bedroom or at my gf's, whom I can't bring home because my mother will take the oportunity to "make things interesting". To make this whole situation worse, my dad works at the police and doesn't do anything about it cause she'll threaten him with divorce. I also have a little brother, but he's her favourite dince he always sticks on her side and gets in between when we argue and tells her everything she needs to know to be on the high side. Eg: he looked through all of my drawers once while I was at college and found condoms and told her. I'll come back to that later.
The other day, my sister arrived from argentina after being there for a few months. My sister and my mother have always had much more friction than I and my mother have. Anyway, my mother was being very annoying and interrupting her conversations every 10 seconds to ask questions that were simply not her problem. My sister is 31 now. So my sister walks away and comes to the living room with me. My mother later comes and they start arguing about something as usual. However, my sister said something that must have touched my mother's nerve and she tried to kick my sister out. My sister sat and refused to move until she was gone, so my mother started dragging her from her hair. That is until I stood up and stopped her and shouted at her very angrily. Dad then came down and pushed me around while mother was happy in the back. I left the house with my sister, and as I walked away, my mother runned upstairs to my room, took the condoms out and ran after me while waving them and mocking me about them.
I left the house for 3 days and I'm back now but as soon as I arrived she started abusing me again and entering my room to shout at my face.
There's a lot more but as you may imagine, I could be here all day. I need help. I depend of my home and of them financially since I'm studying and going to uni in september, but I really can't stand it anymore. I'm a 19 yo guy that's had to leave the house twice now because of physical and mental abuse and I can't cope with that, a job and my studies which I am juggling right now. I can't call the childline because I'moverge and I can't move out because I simply can't afford it. I know I'll be out in september but another 5 months of this is truly unbeareable. I don't care about the concequences but my parents need to be checked up and to realise that they don't rule the law any differently in their house. What can I do? The internet seems to be useless with this kind of situation.