Guys: are you reluctant to approach intimidating girls

People have told me due to my 'resting bitch face' they were initially scared to talk to me ... I'm wondering if this is why guys don't come up to me :frown:

Don't want to sound like a dick but I've had people tell me I'm pretty and stuff and anyway anyone can be chatted up etc so I don't get why I'm never approached ...?

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Reply 1

BristolFresher15

I wouldn't have a problem approaching them. But it would be more of a platonic approach. I'd probably not be able to ask them out.

I do find intimidating girls and 'bitches' really attractive for some reason :colonhash:

Reply 2

BhagwanNoBhool

I'm reluctant to approach random girls fullstop, it just seems like such a creepy thing to do

Reply 3

DanteTheDoorKnob

Original post by BristolFresher15

So did I, then I dated one.

Reply 4

BristolFresher15

Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob

So did I, then I dated one.

I know they'll be trouble, and it will probably end badly. But I still can't shake the attraction. I'm a tiny bit masochistic when it comes to a certain type of girl :colone:

Maybe just once, and when I realize that its awful; never again. :tongue:

Reply 5

Jebedee

Original post by BhagwanNoBhool

I'm reluctant to approach random girls fullstop, it just seems like such a creepy thing to do

If you do it in a creepy way it is.

Reply 6

Lychee628

I am quite reluctant to approach random girls

Reply 7

MevMev

Original post by BristolFresher15

eyyyyyy so the bitch act works on some boys then yeah ??

Reply 8

slc98

Original post by Anonymous

People have told me due to my 'resting bitch face' they were initially scared to talk to me ... I'm wondering if this is why guys don't come up to me :frown:

Don't want to sound like a dick but I've had people tell me I'm pretty and stuff and anyway anyone can be chatted up etc so I don't get why I'm never approached ...?

I've also had people say they think I look quite intimidating and are hesitant to talk to me at first. But once people talk to me they realise I'm actually a fluff ball :cute:

Reply 9

BristolFresher15

Original post by MevMev

eyyyyyy so the bitch act works on some boys then yeah ??

Definitely. I often find them very attractive, while still hating them :tongue:

Reply 10

asif007

Why should I waste my time talking to a girl who puts on a resting ***** face just to make herself feel better when I could talk to girls who are actually a bit more receptive to my attention? Any girl who looks intimidating is probably too afraid of talking to guys and would probably act up and behave badly if I made any effort with her. Bros need to have some self-respect and go for girls who are actually nice to look at as well as talk to.

Reply 11

MevMev

Original post by BristolFresher15

Definitely. I often find them very attractive, while still hating them :tongue:

i think you would like (yet simultaneously hate) me then haha

Reply 12

thefatone

Original post by Anonymous

People have told me due to my 'resting bitch face' they were initially scared to talk to me ... I'm wondering if this is why guys don't come up to me :frown:

Don't want to sound like a dick but I've had people tell me I'm pretty and stuff and anyway anyone can be chatted up etc so I don't get why I'm never approached ...?

This is why i have very few friends

Reply 13

alkaline.

Original post by Anonymous

People have told me due to my 'resting bitch face' they were initially scared to talk to me ... I'm wondering if this is why guys don't come up to me :frown:

Don't want to sound like a dick but I've had people tell me I'm pretty and stuff and anyway anyone can be chatted up etc so I don't get why I'm never approached ...?

lol I have resting bitch face syndrome and idec cause I still look hot.
If there's a guy that can't approach me bc of it just cause I "look mean", good, I don't want a pussy n1gga like that in my life lol.

Reply 14

BristolFresher15

Original post by MevMev

i think you would like (yet simultaneously hate) me then haha

You haven't seemed like a bitch from the few times we've talked though :laugh:

Reply 15

MevMev

Original post by BristolFresher15

You haven't seemed like a bitch from the few times we've talked though :laugh:

i keep that side hidden :wink:

Reply 16

Rakas21

Original post by Anonymous

People have told me due to my 'resting bitch face' they were initially scared to talk to me ... I'm wondering if this is why guys don't come up to me :frown:

Don't want to sound like a dick but I've had people tell me I'm pretty and stuff and anyway anyone can be chatted up etc so I don't get why I'm never approached ...?

A lot of people lack self belief and therefore won't approach a really hot girl or somebody who looks bitchy simply because they expect rejection and see little point. There is logic to it to be fair.

With all that i said above i should say that i am aware that i don't have such a normal lack of self belief and provided you did not verbally be bitchy to me, would indeed approach you. So don't be too down, some men will still approach.

Reply 17

thefatone

Original post by slc98

I've also had people say they think I look quite intimidating and are hesitant to talk to me at first. But once people talk to me they realise I'm actually a fluff ball :cute:

sometimes for me sometimes not.....

Reply 18

username2387497

Id find ir hard ti aproach an intimidating girl but i do want someone intimidating as my girlfriend! I can then become not intimidated by them whilst everyone else is!!!!
But its harder to approach people who are intimidating but not impossible!
Its an attractive quality!!

Reply 19

Zarek

The aloof demeanour can be a bit intimidating but also alluring with a pretty girl, in a can I melt an ice maiden sort of way. Never heard of a 'resting bitch face' mind. Perhaps smile a bit more :biggrin: