Flirting with girls online/by text. I just can't do it 😩

So I don't have a problem getting numbers, some girls give it to me themselves, so I know I'm not ugly af or something.

I'm generally funny, my friends and female friends would describe me as one of the funniest guys they know. BUT when in texting an attractive girl, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY (sorry for the caps lock, ahem anyway)

Like I'll be confused on what to say, and the convo will be boring, just talking about how's uni going or something like that. I can't seem to get any banter going, I overthink and then be too nice. By too nice I mean, I just ask nice polite questions and am too cautious to not offend them. How can I break the ice in this situation and get a good conversation going? I just never know what to say.

I can't even talk sexual, because I just feel like a dirty pervert if I do. Even though it's so common for people to talk sexually 😫

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Reply 1

fatima1998

you are a good boy :console:

Reply 2

ODES_PDES

Original post by Anonymous

I am similar.
I can flirt face to face but not online/text
Do not worry

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by fatima1998

you are a good boy :console:

Nobody likes a good boy :frown:

I just get nervous and end being boring

Original post by ODES_PDES

I am similar.
I can flirt face to face but not online/text
Do not worry

Urgh it's so annoying, like literally if a 8/10 gives me her number I'll still screw up

Reply 4

gr8wizard10

ask to meet, you don't need to text often.. or use FaceTime

Reply 5

SMEGGGY

Use the emojis. Say something flirty then :-P

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Reply 6

fatima1998

Original post by Anonymous

Nobody likes a good boy :frown:

I just get nervous and end being boring

i like good boys :yep:

because i am a good girl :smile:

bad girls wont like good boys and i am sure you dont want bad girls
you'll progress once you find a true person :h:

Reply 7

LiquidGold

If you find it that difficult just ask them on a date straight away rather than texting for a bit first

Reply 8

1682795

What?

Who would flirt online. Get a life.

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Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by gr8wizard10

ask to meet, you don't need to text often.. or use FaceTime

But what if you're long distance? In person I'm not much better, I just want to be able to converse better by text

Original post by SMEGGGY

Use the emojis. Say something flirty then :-P

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I always thought emojis were my shortcoming. I use them quite often. So what if i call her "pretty", she'll say thank and then what next? See what I mean I can't flirt :lol:

Original post by fatima1998

i like good boys :yep:

because i am a good girl :smile:

bad girls wont like good boys and i am sure you dont want bad girls
you'll progress once you find a true person :h:

I may be good, but even good girls don't want a boring man :frown:

If you like good guys, maybe I should pm you :hubba:

Original post by Impressive

What?

Who would flirt online. Get a life.

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Idk, to pass the time? :lol:

Reply 10

fatima1998

Original post by Anonymous

I may be good, but even good girls don't want a boring man :frown:

If you like good guys, maybe I should pm you :hubba:

noo, thats not i meant :lol:

i am not into this :rofl:

you can VM me if you want :biggrin:

Reply 11

1682795

Original post by Anonymous

Idk, to pass the time? :lol:

To pass time?

So you're just telling someone you really like them and then you say it was all a lie?

What a great idea. Might as well try it. I wonder how my actions will affect the person I'm going to be writing to.

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Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by fatima1998

noo, thats not i meant :lol:

i am not into this :rofl:

you can VM me if you want :biggrin:

Hahaha I was only joking, I don't randomly PM people like that :tongue:

Original post by Impressive

I wouldn't lie, just flirt a bit and have some good conversation. I'm not talking about leading someone on, I'd only flirt if I was attracted to them. If we didnt hit it off then I wouldn't continue.

Reply 13

1682795

Original post by Anonymous

I wouldn't lie, just flirt a bit and have some good conversation. I'm not talking about leading someone on, I'd only flirt if I was attracted to them. If we didnt hit it off then I wouldn't continue.

Oh, okay.

I didn't know.

Really.

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Reply 14

Anonymous #1

Bump. Since its prime procrastination time 🌚

Reply 15

username155270

So? Just sounds like your not ready for girls. Get your confidence up by becoming successful, going to the gym ect...focus on bettering yourself and everything else will fall into place.