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Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
when i could be with another girl and being in love...sounds bad but dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
She's also my best bestfriend...
Any advice would be appreciated :smile:

Honesty is the best policy.

Sounds cheesy I know

Reply 2

BristolFresher15

Be honest, leading her on is not cool.

Reply 3

User1452521

Original post by BristolFresher15

Be honest, leading her on is not cool.

I'm not leading her on at all...but wondering if it takes this much time to become in love...

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by brodingoson

Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
She's also my best bestfriend...
Any advice would be appreciated :smile:

Ask her to get out of your life....

Spoiler

Reply 5

BristolFresher15

Original post by brodingoson

I'm not leading her on at all...but wondering if it takes this much time to become in love...

It sure sounds like it, though.

Original post by brodingoson

We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
She's also my best bestfriend...
Any advice would be appreciated

Reply 6

ODES_PDES

Whenever I see/hear this title (the statement I mean) I cringe head to toe.

Reply 7

Trapping

Original post by brodingoson

Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
She's also my best bestfriend...
Any advice would be appreciated :smile:

Yeah yeah shush. :slap: