Finding a girlfriend at uni

Hi

Im a first year student at uni. I have been thinking about getting a girlfriend at uni for the past year but with no luck. Anyone know how I can potential find a girlfriend. Not being desperate or anything, I just want to find a soulmate that I can sometimes spend time with.

Thanks

Reply 1

claireestelle

22

Original post by sdf1444

Hi

Im a first year student at uni. I have been thinking about getting a girlfriend at uni for the past year but with no luck. Anyone know how I can potential find a girlfriend. Not being desperate or anything, I just want to find a soulmate that I can sometimes spend time with.

Thanks

Are you part of any societies?

Reply 2

Katieludgrove

Don't try and force it, when you do that it never works just let a relationship build on mutual grounds!

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Reply 3

sdf1444

OP

8

Original post by claireestelle

Are you part of any societies?

Yes i am.

Reply 4

BarBar124

5

Dont force it, just start talking to someone and hope for a spark, hang out a bit.

Dont go for someone on your course or a flatmate because if something goes wrong then it could be really awkward

Reply 5

sdf1444

OP

8

Original post by Katieludgrove

Don't try and force it, when you do that it never works just let a relationship build on mutual grounds!

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What do you mean by mutual grounds?

Reply 6

Alexion

17

Buy one on amazon.co.uk

Reply 7

username1726117

14

Societies are probably the best way to meet new people, but if you do extra activities such as volunteering that just opens up more opportunities.

I haven't had any luck in my first year, personally, but from what I've seen it's the best option. You might be able to meet someone on a night out, but I wouldn't rely on it too much!

Reply 8

sdf1444

OP

8

I feel like i am missing out because some of my friends have girlfriends. Do you guys think i am missing out. What should I do for next year? Its just I dont want to finish uni without having made a girlfriend.

Reply 9

TrueDetective01

8

Do you even lift, bruhh

Reply 10

GUMI

19

Original post by Alexion

Buy one on amazon.co.uk

10/10 would not do again

Reply 11

Zarek

21

Horse riding club is a cert.

Reply 12

username927016

20

Confidence is key here, just be outgoing & social. Societies a probably your best bet but try not to rush things, get to know the girl first, then after a while ask her out for a drink or something, after that hopefully something serious will develop, good luck! :smile: