Is it wrong to cook for myself?

Basically, today I've pissed off my stepfather due to cooking and I want to see if I am really in the wrong.

I am 18, I live at home and today I decided to cook some food for myself (this was from about 4pm, I finished cooking at around 7pm and a few minutes after I came my stepfather came home and saw and was angry that I only cooked for myself and said I was selfish etc.

I have cooked for my entire family before, twice this week already but today I decided to make something for myself, it was just meant to be a smallish 'lunch' food that ended up taking a while longer.

I was basically told, to only cook for myself and if he cooks food for the family, I can't have any of it and then he bought up times I've cooked for myself before like when I have made myself pancakes. I didn't really think this was a big thing that I should cook for the family.

Am I being unreasonable to have made some ribs for only myself? I also bought the meat and ingredients myself.

Basically, today I've pissed off my stepfather due to cooking and I want to see if I am really in the wrong.

I am 18, I live at home and today I decided to cook some food for myself (this was from about 4pm, I finished cooking at around 7pm and a few minutes after I came my stepfather came home and saw and was angry that I only cooked for myself and said I was selfish etc.

I have cooked for my entire family before, twice this week already but today I decided to make something for myself, it was just meant to be a smallish 'lunch' food that ended up taking a while longer.

I was basically told, to only cook for myself and if he cooks food for the family, I can't have any of it and then he bought up times I've cooked for myself before like when I have made myself pancakes. I didn't really think this was a big thing that I should cook for the family.

Am I being unreasonable to have made some ribs for only myself? I also bought the meat and ingredients myself.

Not unreasonable at all.

He flipped out at me over this food issue and said I was ****ing selfish and that I don't care about my mother and then switched his tone to say "do what you think is right, if you think this is the right way to live then do it" trying to guilt me but I honestly didn't think it was a big issue, I made some ribs and kimchi pancakes. My family don't even eat kimchi

If you are just cooking for yourself as a kinda snack then that's fine, but if you are cooking to deliberately make him mad then that's kinda a dick move on your part

Yea it was wrong. Snacks or lunch would of been ok but cooking an evening meal just for yourself when others are around is bad manners unless they arranged something else.

Basically, today I've pissed off my stepfather due to cooking and I want to see if I am really in the wrong.

I am 18, I live at home and today I decided to cook some food for myself (this was from about 4pm, I finished cooking at around 7pm and a few minutes after I came my stepfather came home and saw and was angry that I only cooked for myself and said I was selfish etc.

I have cooked for my entire family before, twice this week already but today I decided to make something for myself, it was just meant to be a smallish 'lunch' food that ended up taking a while longer.

I was basically told, to only cook for myself and if he cooks food for the family, I can't have any of it and then he bought up times I've cooked for myself before like when I have made myself pancakes. I didn't really think this was a big thing that I should cook for the family.

Am I being unreasonable to have made some ribs for only myself? I also bought the meat and ingredients myself.

I am 18, I live at home and today I decided to cook some food for myself (this was from about 4pm, I finished cooking at around 7pm and a few minutes after I came my stepfather came home and saw and was angry that I only cooked for myself and said I was selfish etc.

Not unreasonable at all, in my family we tend to do this a lot purely because of school/work and everyone likes different foods.

I'd be pissed too if it took you 3 hours to make ribs.

Unless you slaughtered whatever it was you were getting ribs from in the process. Then you'd get mad props.

No, but knowing how he is, then you should have predicted his mean spirited reaction and done a few more or cooked faster so he never found out. He just seems grouchy.

If he had walked in the door 5 minutes later, I could've been done, without any hassle. I even cleaned up afterwards so it's not like anyone would even notice.

I assumed he'd see it that way but no, generally if I make something that I know everyone eats I always leave it for everyone to have.

But today I was trying out some different foods that normally my family don't eat and they weren't even home when I started cooking but it seems I'm terrible for it.